Attention everyone, IMPORTANT NEWS~
12 years ago
UGH, so something very serious is going on right now, and I must bring it to public attention. PLEASE READ, EVERYONE. Also, many sincere thanks for your kind support. Things are working out now, fortunately!
UPDATE 1/9/2013:
- I have deactivated my PayPal card and will be getting a new one in the mail in a couple weeks. Money may be sent to piratecashoo[at]yahoo.com now.
- I called the police yesterday and they drove me back home safely and confronted my ex/neighbor to not bother me again or else serious legal action (restraining order) would take place.
- I am in the process of getting a new Internet network (with the help of a couple very kind friends).
- I've also called an abuse hotline to discuss the parameters of the situation.
Yesterday, I went to grab the last of my possessions from my abusive ex-boyfriend's house (he lives literally right next door to me). A good friend of mine, who is staying for a week from out-of-state, came along with me to help me and make sure I wouldn't get hurt or anything. He had invited both of us into his house, and he let me take my stuff back although he wasn't very happy about it. Everything was consensual amongst all parties.
Now, since this morning, he's been furious and has contacted our landlord, saying that there is an "unwanted guest" next door. In addition, he has threatened to me that he will be contacting my online clients and telling everyone that all the money I've made from commissions has gone to drugs. In reality, the majority of it has gone to him and paying for his expenses, ESPECIALLY when I lived with him. I've touched on this briefly before on multiple occasions, but when I had lived with him for 2 years up until August this year, I paid for nearly ALL of his expenses and bills. Everything. It's a HUGE reason as to why I have such a backlog with my commissions right now.
Oh, and to top it off, he JUST now kicked me off of the Internet network that I have been 100% paying for nearly 2 years. It's in his name, so he has control of it even though I pay for it and use it. So, I just had to walk to the local internet cafe in order to post this.
ALSO, he has my PayPal debit card and refuses to give it back, so he has technically stolen it. That card is the key to how I get my funds from my PayPal account, which is the only place I get my income, which is how I pay ALL of my bills. TO ANYONE & MY CUSTOMERS, DO NOT SEND ANY MONEY TO piratecashoo[at]yahoo.com ON PAYPAL!
UPDATE 1/9/2013:
- I have deactivated my PayPal card and will be getting a new one in the mail in a couple weeks. Money may be sent to piratecashoo[at]yahoo.com now.
- I called the police yesterday and they drove me back home safely and confronted my ex/neighbor to not bother me again or else serious legal action (restraining order) would take place.
- I am in the process of getting a new Internet network (with the help of a couple very kind friends).
- I've also called an abuse hotline to discuss the parameters of the situation.
Yesterday, I went to grab the last of my possessions from my abusive ex-boyfriend's house (he lives literally right next door to me). A good friend of mine, who is staying for a week from out-of-state, came along with me to help me and make sure I wouldn't get hurt or anything. He had invited both of us into his house, and he let me take my stuff back although he wasn't very happy about it. Everything was consensual amongst all parties.
Now, since this morning, he's been furious and has contacted our landlord, saying that there is an "unwanted guest" next door. In addition, he has threatened to me that he will be contacting my online clients and telling everyone that all the money I've made from commissions has gone to drugs. In reality, the majority of it has gone to him and paying for his expenses, ESPECIALLY when I lived with him. I've touched on this briefly before on multiple occasions, but when I had lived with him for 2 years up until August this year, I paid for nearly ALL of his expenses and bills. Everything. It's a HUGE reason as to why I have such a backlog with my commissions right now.
Oh, and to top it off, he JUST now kicked me off of the Internet network that I have been 100% paying for nearly 2 years. It's in his name, so he has control of it even though I pay for it and use it. So, I just had to walk to the local internet cafe in order to post this.
ALSO, he has my PayPal debit card and refuses to give it back, so he has technically stolen it. That card is the key to how I get my funds from my PayPal account, which is the only place I get my income, which is how I pay ALL of my bills. TO ANYONE & MY CUSTOMERS, DO NOT SEND ANY MONEY TO piratecashoo[at]yahoo.com ON PAYPAL!
I'm sorry you have this kind of a waste living so close to you :(
*hug*
Sorry to hear this though. :(
Either way I wont slag him off as that won't get anyone anywhere....
I seriously wish the very best for you cashoo, and I hope this mess sorts itself out....
Safety first yo. Art can wait a bit.
*hugs* we are all saying the same thing, please take it under adivisment
He needs to be diagnosed with some kind of horrendous debilitating terminal illness, as karma for the kind of person he's been to you. =/
Call the cops. He's committed theft and is threatening defamation.
Then when he's arrested and charged with such, note that to your landlord.
Also consider contacting Paypal and asking them to cancel THAT debit card due to theft, and send you a new one.
DO NOT give into his demands!! He's trying to control you!
that's theft. call them NOW!
Scott
The paypal thing too will get him in a helluva amount of trouble, not only stealing, but will be considered Robbery and will get his ass in trouble.
Hun, stick close to your friends, and be careful, okay? :< Cancel the card and call Paypal to get your info changed, and be safe.
I could be there quick to bust his face in?
-puts that offer on the table-
But seriously, I do agree with everyone that's said call the cops.
Call them and report him.
...
And I seriously will drive over there and stomp his head in if you need it.
Beatings are surprisingly effective with guys like this.
-Puts the key to
You know what you have to do. *sage nod of encouragement*
You deserve your freedom!
Also go to the police dude...this shit's not funny. I know I went through a similar situation with my ex though I only lived with him for 1 year. And I was the one paying rent and household bills and food and buying him clothes and shit like that. IDK how I held back from beating the crap out of him...and I could have too.... but yeah...police please |:
You're a decent person, don't ever let someone treat you like he has <3
Just dropping by to say hi, and hope for the best for ya.