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My apologize to people on Skype.
13 years ago
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Something I've noticed about myself this last year is.. Well, I am HORRIBLE at talking to people.
With that said, I'm really sorry about that. I really appreciate everyone who's added me, and shown actual interest in talking to me. So I figured I'd try and give some back story, so you guys don't think I just don't like you for some reason. I don't really have many friends, in person or online. I'm not saying that for pity or for people to feel bad, It's just... kind of what I'm used to. There was a span of two years where I had literally one contact on Skype, so I kind of fell into the habit of well... being terrible at keeping a conversation going; sometimes I'll even read a message that's sent to me, and minimize the window so I can finish something quick, saying "Oh I'll respond to that in a second." And then I just completely forget to respond, and before I know it, it's been hours since I said anything.
I also know I disapear randomly (Go offline without saying goodbye) and I'm sorry for that too. If I'm not not in the middle of a conversation with anyone I'll just get offline.
I should also add, don't feel afraid to message me a, "Hey, don't forget about me!" kind of message, though I'd prefer it if you perhaps just.. Poked me or something. Or maybe just said "You get distracted?" or something of the sort, of course not in a snarky way.
I just wanted to explain myself a little, I don't want to be anti-social, and I really don't mean to be. I also am writing this in hopes anyone who's thinking "Damn, does she just think I'm annoying?" will see that that's not true.
I hope I can slowly stop being so.. well, anti-social. Sorry about that guys!
With that said, I'm really sorry about that. I really appreciate everyone who's added me, and shown actual interest in talking to me. So I figured I'd try and give some back story, so you guys don't think I just don't like you for some reason. I don't really have many friends, in person or online. I'm not saying that for pity or for people to feel bad, It's just... kind of what I'm used to. There was a span of two years where I had literally one contact on Skype, so I kind of fell into the habit of well... being terrible at keeping a conversation going; sometimes I'll even read a message that's sent to me, and minimize the window so I can finish something quick, saying "Oh I'll respond to that in a second." And then I just completely forget to respond, and before I know it, it's been hours since I said anything.
I also know I disapear randomly (Go offline without saying goodbye) and I'm sorry for that too. If I'm not not in the middle of a conversation with anyone I'll just get offline.
I should also add, don't feel afraid to message me a, "Hey, don't forget about me!" kind of message, though I'd prefer it if you perhaps just.. Poked me or something. Or maybe just said "You get distracted?" or something of the sort, of course not in a snarky way.
I just wanted to explain myself a little, I don't want to be anti-social, and I really don't mean to be. I also am writing this in hopes anyone who's thinking "Damn, does she just think I'm annoying?" will see that that's not true.
I hope I can slowly stop being so.. well, anti-social. Sorry about that guys!
We will have ALL OF THE CONVERSATIONS! XD
I hope people aren't mad though! I'm really not doing it to blow anyone off, I can just be REALLY absent-minded! I'm really glad you understand, though x3 <3
It all goes away when I hear from you again, though. :)
So, my apologies to you; you've said this to me before, so I shouldn't worry about it.
Seems we both have bad habits to get rid of.
I always feel weird consistently starting conversations. I always feel like I'm imposing eventually. I never can tell if that bothers other people!