Personal Boundaries
17 years ago
General
So it has come to my attention I should probably begin laying these down, since, well, perhaps my expectations of social interactions are skewed somewhat or something. Anyway, here we go.
- I do not mind chatting with most anyone; if you message me and I can basically understand what you're talking about (i.e. not in Turkish), I'll probably respond. Keep in mind however, just because I'm online doesn't mean I'm at my computer; I leave my system on pretty much 24/7, meaning I'm always logged in.
- Type-fucking is a very fickle thing for me. Sometimes, if you make the advance, I'll go with it; other times, I'll either tell you to fuck off or just not even reply. Knowing you even a little is a huge help in that area regardless of my mood. In that regard, I have very many HUGE boundaries; it's probably best to look at my Rabbit Hole page for what not to do: http://rh.greydawn.net/browse.php?c=Baphijmm
- I am an eastern dragon. I am not a dog, horse, cat, weasel, three-toed sloth, or beaver. I am what I am and that's all what I am; please don't ask me to be something I'm not, especially if it's just so you can get your rocks off.
- Yes, I am into mind / body control; however, I have, for all intents and purposes, given up on hypnosis. The thought of the act in and of itself is not a terribly huge fetish of mine, and the few times I've tried it, it resulted in absolutely nothing. PLEASE, do not message me if you're only doing so because you think you've got the answer for that. Also - and this is a good rule of thumb for interaction with anyone - DON'T USE HYPNOTIC TRIGGERS WITHOUT GETTING PERMISSION. No, hypnosis never worked for me; however, doing that makes you come across as a creep, especially if I know what it's supposed to do. The moment either you do this or I realize that's what you've done, I am not speaking to you again.
- If you meet me in real life, I do not mind a light hug, greeting, handshake, etc.; heck, I don't even mind playful banter or flirting. I DO mind glomping, bear hugs, kisses, groping, etc. unless I know you VERY well, i.e. have met you in the past and have known you physically for at least a month (and even that is stretching it).
- I do not mind chatting with most anyone; if you message me and I can basically understand what you're talking about (i.e. not in Turkish), I'll probably respond. Keep in mind however, just because I'm online doesn't mean I'm at my computer; I leave my system on pretty much 24/7, meaning I'm always logged in.
- Type-fucking is a very fickle thing for me. Sometimes, if you make the advance, I'll go with it; other times, I'll either tell you to fuck off or just not even reply. Knowing you even a little is a huge help in that area regardless of my mood. In that regard, I have very many HUGE boundaries; it's probably best to look at my Rabbit Hole page for what not to do: http://rh.greydawn.net/browse.php?c=Baphijmm
- I am an eastern dragon. I am not a dog, horse, cat, weasel, three-toed sloth, or beaver. I am what I am and that's all what I am; please don't ask me to be something I'm not, especially if it's just so you can get your rocks off.
- Yes, I am into mind / body control; however, I have, for all intents and purposes, given up on hypnosis. The thought of the act in and of itself is not a terribly huge fetish of mine, and the few times I've tried it, it resulted in absolutely nothing. PLEASE, do not message me if you're only doing so because you think you've got the answer for that. Also - and this is a good rule of thumb for interaction with anyone - DON'T USE HYPNOTIC TRIGGERS WITHOUT GETTING PERMISSION. No, hypnosis never worked for me; however, doing that makes you come across as a creep, especially if I know what it's supposed to do. The moment either you do this or I realize that's what you've done, I am not speaking to you again.
- If you meet me in real life, I do not mind a light hug, greeting, handshake, etc.; heck, I don't even mind playful banter or flirting. I DO mind glomping, bear hugs, kisses, groping, etc. unless I know you VERY well, i.e. have met you in the past and have known you physically for at least a month (and even that is stretching it).
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