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jus kinda confused xD

oh well, what are you confuseded about? maybe i can help ya out.

so uh you transitioning from a girl to a guy? that's what i'm confused about. i heard its more difficult for women then it is for men to switch :o sry to bother you x3

oh its no bother.....and yes it is harder for FtM than MtF. It tends to cost more for surgery for one, because lets face it, getting big boobs and other feminine things are easier to get access too and a bit more socially excepted. Plus oddly enough the female anatomy tends to be easier replicated then the males. Personally i wont be replacing my junk downstairs because theres an extremely high rate i wont be able to feel anything if i do. The technology just isnt up to pare yet.

Now i could also go into how in general society is a bit biased because of the hetero male ratio whatever, but it that can be a heated debate on some things.

In the end really it boils down to the person whose going to transition. Reason why im on a fast track compared to others is because Ive been wanting to do this for 6 years. I discovered it was possible when i was 19years old, and researched it continuously ever since. The past 3 years i've been living basically Male in the eyes of everyone else and myself. Which includes binding and packing every day and having ppl use male pronouns and the name i prefer. I finally went to a Therapist who deals with transitioning ppl and explained to him how i felt and how this wasnt an over night thing, and that im pretty well knowledge as to what will happen,as well as level headed enough and so on. I also made sure he know i wasnt crazy either lol. Because a persons mental health is very important for 2 reasons in this process. 1. because some ppl male think they want to be the opposite gender and later on come to regret it for various reasons. and 2. when your body is being introduced to a completely different hormone, it can temporarily screw with your mentality. Example with Testosterone, increased aggression can occur. Basically you go through puberty all over again.


I hope this helps, i can go in depth on things if you'd like. I dont mind answering questions and such.

**some ppl might think*** correction freaking typo >.o

:3 wow that was long :3 thanks x3 yea i mean cause i think and act female my brain works better that way so i was just wondering and i got a good grasp of how you feel and i feel similar to you :3 i'm probably just going to deal with it for a while cause of the family reasons and not really sure how people would take it and my fiancee too. I just feel more myself when i'm being that way though you know?

well thats understandable. a good part of why i didnt transition for a long time is because of my family. I was worried they'd not accept it. But i will say when you get older, in time it does start to bug you. Right now i pass as either gender, so it really starts to annoy me when random ppl still say "Miss" or "Girl". but i cant be mad at them cause they dont know.

My advice is take your time, because if you rush things, it can cause more problems and heart ache. However, it is something, when your ready, you may want to bring up to your fiancee. and it doesn't have to be a straight forward thing, just a simple "Hay what do you think of..."

And im here for you, if you need any information on any of this i know alot for both ends. Plus sometimes its just good to have another person to talk to.

good to know :3 yea would be nice to have someone to talk to :3 I have skype and msn that i use if you wanna add me :D always nice to have friends :3

finally found you again xD i lost your name on here and lucky enough i saw your submission :D how you been? :3

lol im good and you?

doin ok getting over being sick :/