I definitely feel this way when commenting on some of my fetishes. It's pretty obvious that it is my fetish, but at the same time...fetish. Even if I'm in the right...fetish? XD
Still, gotta realize context and stuff, and be respectful always...
Sometimes I worry that I'm crossing the familiarity line, but never in a sexualized sense. I did once accidentally ask a friend if she was busty in a public area of an MMO, though (the "T" and "Y" key are really, really adjacent, y'see, heh heh heh.... crap.)
I do worry about appearing over-familiar myself. So I end up going the exact other way which gives people who want to be closer to me the sense that I don't give a fuck about them.
no, but i've had people message me saying they keep looking back at the messages I sent thinking of me and that they couldnt help but to try and talk to me again... freakin stalkers..
I know. Someone was very shocked reading that...
But i just laught hard. Im sorry... but that was pretty... well oh Im getting creppy with all these "..." and the not finished sentence
Everyone has stuck their foot in their mouth atleast once or twice and the people in this thread that say they haven't aren't being entirely honest. The difference is though that there's sticking your foot in your mouth, then there is being genuinely creepy. I can tolerate someone being awkward, or the occaisional offhanded or off color remark. I may inform the person that it's not how to act around me, but if it's intentional, then I don't tolerate it.
I have't got any creepy comments yet but I'll just ask them to not do that. If they persist, then they're just doing it on purpose.
As for me, I'll NEVER send creepy comments because it's disrespectful and it makes me look like a pervert. I like the art as well as the sexiness.
I get them all the time but they dont "creep" me out.
Maybe "weirded" out but not creepy. Creepy would be something that someone goes and tells you he fapped to that or came telling you what he did like he thinks thats hot for the other person. No its not...its gross and maybe a lil creepy.
When i get guests telling me what they would do to the character(s) is normal to me. Because its a imaginary story, fantasy they come up with but sharing it.
Whats really creepy? Fapping RP. Thats just weird in every way. I hate it and I get asked about it. Polygamy furs are creepy too. No offense but
multiple relationships is creepy and weird. And then you get asked to be his Master when he has like 5 boyfriends and a personal furry family made up who is not even blood related but he asks if you can be his master along with his 5 boyfriends. Now thats creepy. Yeah ive been asked that once.
Yes. A great many of my early comments on Deviantart would count as being creepy/weird in hindsight, and honestly I cringe whenever I recollect them. .-. (In fact, it's debatable as to whether or not I've actually gotten less creepy, but I digress ><; )
I'm asexual and on the autism spectrum but I've creeped a few folks out (furry or not) with my furry-specific tear-licking fetish. Been blocked every so often, kinda hurts when they shut me out before I can explain myself.
I am very self concious >.<
Still, gotta realize context and stuff, and be respectful always...
Fucking hard thing to balance
I just don't want them to hate me...
But i just laught hard. Im sorry... but that was pretty... well oh Im getting creppy with all these "..." and the not finished sentence
As for me, I'll NEVER send creepy comments because it's disrespectful and it makes me look like a pervert. I like the art as well as the sexiness.
Maybe "weirded" out but not creepy. Creepy would be something that someone goes and tells you he fapped to that or came telling you what he did like he thinks thats hot for the other person. No its not...its gross and maybe a lil creepy.
When i get guests telling me what they would do to the character(s) is normal to me. Because its a imaginary story, fantasy they come up with but sharing it.
Whats really creepy? Fapping RP. Thats just weird in every way. I hate it and I get asked about it. Polygamy furs are creepy too. No offense but
multiple relationships is creepy and weird. And then you get asked to be his Master when he has like 5 boyfriends and a personal furry family made up who is not even blood related but he asks if you can be his master along with his 5 boyfriends. Now thats creepy. Yeah ive been asked that once.