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A thing you may not know about me
12 years ago
Be Who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. http://25.media.tumblr.com/49298fb5.....bumo1_1280.jpg
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The result that I got, really does reflect an aspect of my life that I really have had no problem embracing. Talking with Mom about it a bit, she has a bit of a inkling about what I mainly get at when I say “Maybe I should’ve been the boy of the family sometimes”.
Some may say I feel this way because of when I got bullied by the girls in my class in elementary school, but no. It’s just something that makes me a person. I am what most people would say is behavioral and psychological androgyny. And you know what, I like that about me.
It’s something that a lot of people don’t know about me, and always find it weird. Some people say “you’re a girl that’s all there is too it”. But you can’t just really put people in a ‘category’. I know I’m physically a girl, but well I feel very ‘manly’ more often than not. I grew up being bullied mainly because of the colour of my skin, and by those of my same gender. If anything it made me question a couple of things about myself. At the end of it somewhere at the age of 10 I asked my mother mainly questions relating to sexuality and gender identity and if I would be accepted if one of those things were true about me. She’s probably the only open-minded individual in my family, and for that I’m grateful for.
I felt comfortable dressing up like a boy, but considering some things are a bit expensive I just wore what’s in my closet. In my mind I know that I’m about a good mix of both masculine and feminine traits. Granted I liked men’s fashion because it was more sleek and interesting to me.
I am who I am, and that’s good. Never be afraid who you are.
Just for fun you guys can take the exam if you want. This in no way dictates who you are as a person and what you feel! It's just shits and giggles. You decide what makes you, you.
personality-testing.info/tests/BSRI.php
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The result that I got, really does reflect an aspect of my life that I really have had no problem embracing. Talking with Mom about it a bit, she has a bit of a inkling about what I mainly get at when I say “Maybe I should’ve been the boy of the family sometimes”.
Some may say I feel this way because of when I got bullied by the girls in my class in elementary school, but no. It’s just something that makes me a person. I am what most people would say is behavioral and psychological androgyny. And you know what, I like that about me.
It’s something that a lot of people don’t know about me, and always find it weird. Some people say “you’re a girl that’s all there is too it”. But you can’t just really put people in a ‘category’. I know I’m physically a girl, but well I feel very ‘manly’ more often than not. I grew up being bullied mainly because of the colour of my skin, and by those of my same gender. If anything it made me question a couple of things about myself. At the end of it somewhere at the age of 10 I asked my mother mainly questions relating to sexuality and gender identity and if I would be accepted if one of those things were true about me. She’s probably the only open-minded individual in my family, and for that I’m grateful for.
I felt comfortable dressing up like a boy, but considering some things are a bit expensive I just wore what’s in my closet. In my mind I know that I’m about a good mix of both masculine and feminine traits. Granted I liked men’s fashion because it was more sleek and interesting to me.
I am who I am, and that’s good. Never be afraid who you are.
Just for fun you guys can take the exam if you want. This in no way dictates who you are as a person and what you feel! It's just shits and giggles. You decide what makes you, you.
personality-testing.info/tests/BSRI.php
That test was so bad though! How are we supposed to know some of these questions? Who will ever answer "gullible" for instance? I believe they even ask you if you think you are masculine and feminine which is what we want the test to tell us! If we knew that till the point we could rate it why would we seek up a masculinity/femininity test to begin with? I remain by my belief that the only real way to test this is by doing surveys amongst your friends or family and ask for your qualities amongst them as perceived by others and then sort out the information, at least then you take your self belief out of the equation.
So now we ask ourself is it really up to you to decide what or who you are? And can you ever know truly who you are or is it only through the eyes of people outside of you that can make such a decision, but aren't they influenced by their own prejudices and ideals as well as you yourself? If we assume yes then I wonder what the point is in trying to figure out who you are considering regardless you'll find answers affected by the same differing values people have, including yourself. But the rule of statistics tells us that the more you run a test the more reliable the result you'll get, so then we should run many tests on different subjects so we can make a summary of the results, in this way we can obtain a result based on your average values from the view of many people who knows you. And then we end back up at my original suggestion of asking friends and family who you are rather then asking yourself that question. It's almost like I was trying to make a point all along lols ^^
Honestly hon both of us already knew this result even before you did it, we didn't need that thing to tell us what you were like, I'd like to think I know you better than a test on the internet written by some lady in the 70s do ^_^