[center]Hello everyone. Alright girls class is in session so listen well.
So you are dating a gamer, good choice studies show they are good lovers because they are creative and very skilled with thier fingers. But there is a bit of a down fall to dating a Gamer and here are some prime examples.
Dedicated Gamers are solely dedicated to their games no if and or buts about it!
If you want to go out to dinner with your Gamer, tough titty cause it anit gonna happen
Dedicated Gamers pratically live in thier rooms and will live off of snack food and water only to quit when its time for them to sleep and even THAT is a MAYBE
Sex can or can't be an issue if your with a gamer because as I said before they are creative.

So here are some rules to engage your gamer into your life.
1. Bonding time: Now this can be a bit tricky. Since Gamers are solely dedicated to thier games there are some ways around it or you can cope with it and wait until its bed time for you two to snuggle.

Example: loves to play Gears of War and nothing will distract him from Gears of War but his girlfriend wants to snuggle and cuddle with him. Way to do that is wait until the session of his game is over before grabbing him and pulling him onto the bed, snuggle with him until the loading screen is done and the game is about to start. Then release him so he can play.

[Add in from If he has a mulitplayer or co op. See if you can join in. Thank you for that input!!]

2. Entertain Yourself while He games.
Now I know this one is diffcult for some of us girls cause we can get bored easily. So i suggest this if you have a computer play a computer game against your friends on facebook or online. Or if your like myself and have a hand held device phone, dsi etc play your games until he stops and has a need to be entertained by you. Or if your bold enough take his car keys and go out and have fun by yourself.

Example: Muffie is bored watching her boyfriend play his games so she lays backs and whines complains for her boyfriend to entertain her. So Her boyfriend hands her his hand handle game and tells her to knock herself out. She begins to play and continues until his session is over.

3. Catch his Attenion
Now this is easy. You can either walk around naked, or boost his ego

4. Going out,
Now this is most diffcult..And i do mean most diffuclt. Again Gamers live on snacks and water alone. So here is a trick to help get thing along. When he says those magic words "Im Hungry" you get up go into the kitchen and come back and say we have nothing to eat [you know we do so girls if they get up and go search think of something clever to say also hid the snacks] if he goes along. He will wait till his game is over before getting dressed and delcaring "alright lets go out to eat"
Now when this happens and after you eat you still dont wanna go home. Heres another little trick for you. Find a game store near where you want to go and pursede him to go to the game store and then ask if you two can go to the store you want to for a little. [trust me it works]

5. Family Gatherings
Oh boy, now this is entertaining. Your family is in town and they want to meet your boyfriend, but he doesnt want to go. It is essential for your parents grandpareents etc to meet him. I know this for a fact. So what you do is make a little deal with him set up some rules of what he can and can not do infront of your parents also what he can and can not say. Reason I say that is not to offend you boys but you guys seems to say the stupidest shit when it comes to meeting the parents.

Example: Gracie is at the front door of her parents hotel with her boyfriend Ozzie who wants nothing more than to go home and play his 360 or PS3. Gracie whispers in his ear "remember you behave while meeting my parents, I give you a week of servitude in the most provoctive outfit you can think of and I can never say no" with that Ozzie strightened his posture, put on a sweet smile and we to meet the folks.

6. Other Female
Now as females we tend to get jealous and very possesive. So when another girl and espeically a gamer girl trys to talk with your boyfriend with similar stuff. The back if your mind you are hissing and clawing at invisable bars wanting to rip the girl in half. Now remember some females are friends others are foes. You just have to sort through them really.

Example from a friend of mine: Tiffany and Jared are at Game stop Jared is Shopping for a game for his 360 and low and behold a girl with equal beauty to Tiffany approaches Jared and ask him about this game flirting with him [Believe us fellas we know when another girl is flirting with you] So Tiffany quickly intervines and steers Jared away from the girl but not before glaring back at her to see her glaring back. That was a foe.

A friend example of the other female would be this. Another girl who rivals beauty to tiffany approaches him and ask him about a game and before Tiffany walks up to take the girl away another boy approaches the girl and has his arm around her neck. Teh girl explains this is her boyfriend a new gamer to the world. So Tiffany doesn't have to worry.


7. The online Girlfriend
Now girls some guys do have this types of girls. Some its a rare case. Now if you do have one of this types of gamer boyfriends who has an online girlfriend watch. And I do mean closely watch the girl and your boyfriend. Because in his mind he has you and this girl from another state he can have anyone. Deflate that ego now. And deal with it.

Example: Micheal is chatting with Morganna while his girlfriend Kathrine is in the room watching and reading his expressions while they chat entertaining herself while he chats. In the back of her mind she wants to kill this female. Now what Katherine does is makes the best meal she has ever made for him, does everything he asks of you. Only then when his ego is big will she deflate it and nurse it back to its original size.