All I can say is that I'm here for you, whatever you need. I can't promise life will stop sucking but I can promise that I'll be here, even if I'm not any better off but you know what I'll be damned if I'm going to let everything come crashing down again because despite all evidence to contrary it can get better (it can also gets worse but look on the bright side if you hit rock bottom you can only go up!). So whatever you need even if its for me to shut up with all this inspirational bullshit.

And as for the other thing, on one hand what the fuck do I know...but on the other it's not all your fault, it really isn't...