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12 years ago
Its probally quite a stupid rant but I kind of hate when people appolagize when they hear you lost someone not because sometimes it almost feels empty its not like they knew the person or thing you lost like a pet etc. but because its hard to respond sometimes like I said oh its fine but its not fine at all it sucks and it hurts me inside but I really don't know what else to really say when someone says im sorry for your loss.....
maxl8
~maxl8
This wouldn't be derected to me would it?
WillowOdis
~willowodis
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Its not quite directed to anyone just needed to get off my chest how hard it is to respond because its bitter sweet saying it's fine yeah my mom's not in pain but theres not a day that goes by that im not selfish and wish she were still around
maxl8
~maxl8
Well it's just that when you do tell us what should we say?
WillowOdis
~willowodis
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The thing is I don't know all I know is a few of my family members brought up how hard it is to say something after someone says im sorry for your loss and I guess if you say nothing that's rude but I guess one could say how are you holding up insted? I honestly don't know I wish death sometimes didn't exsist but I know it has to
maxl8
~maxl8
I wish I could give you a hug.
WillowOdis
~willowodis
OP
I could use one going through a lot right now and 5 months later and theres still friends who I haven't spoken to in a while asking hows my mother and I have to say she passed away and its hard
maxl8
~maxl8
Yeah it is hard but I'm here if you want someone to talk too. But maybe tomarrow I need to hit the hay night. "Hugs"
WillowOdis
~willowodis
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Have a good sleep Hugs
maxl8
~maxl8
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