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Am I setting a bad example for trans comunity?
12 years ago
I'm not afraid to voice partly why I want to transition has an element of
"autogynphilia" (both furry and non furry)
But the need is more than fetishistic
There is a level of dysphoria completly unrelated to my sexual desire to become a shemale.
I despise my secondary male characteristics and so far am completly grateful they didn't evolve
to the point of developing a brow ridge and masculine facial structure.(kinda surprised actually given how old I am too)
I mean I could transition right now If I wanted to.
What hold me back is purely economic reasons.
Soon as I get my technical diploma I swear im immediately going onto E.
My mom will be no more Buhahahahha(Malifacent laugh)
So the question is furs. Am I really offending trans people if there's a sexual element involved with transition?(I mean duhhh.....who doesnt get turned on thinking of themselves pretty)
I know im not a transvestite.
"autogynphilia" (both furry and non furry)
But the need is more than fetishistic
There is a level of dysphoria completly unrelated to my sexual desire to become a shemale.
I despise my secondary male characteristics and so far am completly grateful they didn't evolve
to the point of developing a brow ridge and masculine facial structure.(kinda surprised actually given how old I am too)
I mean I could transition right now If I wanted to.
What hold me back is purely economic reasons.
Soon as I get my technical diploma I swear im immediately going onto E.
My mom will be no more Buhahahahha(Malifacent laugh)
So the question is furs. Am I really offending trans people if there's a sexual element involved with transition?(I mean duhhh.....who doesnt get turned on thinking of themselves pretty)
I know im not a transvestite.
Anyways, I don't think so at all. I think there's a kind of hypersensitivity to the idea of a sexual element to transitioning because of the trans community's societal position right now. People don't really "get" trans*, generally speaking. Most people don't know the difference between a transvestite and a transgender person - including, unfortunately, a lot of outspoken transvestites. I'm looking at you, Divine! >:(
So there's a huge desire to make sure the public knows that transgenderism isn't a fetishistic thing, like, hurr, I'm a horny straight guy and now I have boobs to play with all the time!
But the way you're describing it is simply that you want to feel sexy and attractive in your own body, and you find that gender sexy, and that's a totally different thing. I think the main concern is how you present the idea of your transitioning having sexual motivations. I do think it's important for trans people to be a bit more aware of their public image simply because of how vulnerable a person is being trans. But that doesn't mean you should lie about yourself or what you want! I think as long as you're clear about it not being a fetishistic thing, then nobody in the trans community really has a good reason to be offended.
I admitt being able to pass is a huge concern for me. And many times I dream of what I'll look like as a woman with a ding dong.
I ain't expecting to be a top model Heavens no but
it would be abhorrent to comes off as "quasimodo"
And believe me I go to great lengths to stay fit and healthy. I spend too much time in the bathroom fixing myself aswell.
Have a whole stack of natural supplements and nat cosmetic facials that ensure skin stays flexible and smooth.
I do admitt however my sex drive comes off as a bit too potent.