The unexpected sixth
12 years ago
General
*ahem* meeeeee... mehhhhh... mahhhhh... mawwwww... maWOOOOOOooooooo....
If I looked at it objectively, I've probably put myself through a lot of needless grief opening up the Party Cub Hub. The sense of purpose of it is great and all, but is it making up for what I'm doing to myself? The question is debatable.
But the point has always been, for better or for worse, it's been my decision to make, my mistake to make if indeed it is a mistake, and in the end, my responsibility for the results.
This week that all has changed.
Meet
ryudofox9, the sixth resident of the Party Cub Hub
Ready or not.
I... know precious little about my new housemate. I know he seems to get along great with Sesame, which is very important, as Sesame has sorely needed someone in her life.
I also know that in the past few weeks he has a) quit his job, b) bought a non-refundable set of bus tickets for Alabama, and c) planned to turn up in the city bus station this Sunday evening.
What I don't know is when he was planning on getting around to telling me, the owner of the house he intends to move into, about all this. Or, you know, introduce himself to me?!
It was only by happenstance, someone stumbling across this journal, that any of us even learned what was going on.
I tried to talk him out of coming. But apparently he's just bound and determined to get away from his mother by any means necessary, and besides, non-refundable ticket.
So whether I like it or not, suddenly this person I've never met and barely know anything about, is my problem.
Why me.
Like I said, it's arguable that I've been getting taken advantage of all along here. But at least it's been by my choice and with my eyes wide open as to what was going on, so that at the bottom line I have no one to blame but myself if it all goes wrong.
But now, this.
I want to give Ryudo a chance since he seems to want to earn his spot, but if he had bothered to even ask me about the viability of moving in here it probably would have come out that his lack of a driver's license is a severe handicap in this very automobile-dependent neighborhood in which the Party Cub Hub is located.
I just don't know if I can deal with this right now. Certainly my coping skills feel very weak right now. I have work I need to get done but I can't get my mind off what I'm being put through here.
Help?
But the point has always been, for better or for worse, it's been my decision to make, my mistake to make if indeed it is a mistake, and in the end, my responsibility for the results.
This week that all has changed.
Meet
ryudofox9, the sixth resident of the Party Cub HubReady or not.
I... know precious little about my new housemate. I know he seems to get along great with Sesame, which is very important, as Sesame has sorely needed someone in her life.
I also know that in the past few weeks he has a) quit his job, b) bought a non-refundable set of bus tickets for Alabama, and c) planned to turn up in the city bus station this Sunday evening.
What I don't know is when he was planning on getting around to telling me, the owner of the house he intends to move into, about all this. Or, you know, introduce himself to me?!
It was only by happenstance, someone stumbling across this journal, that any of us even learned what was going on.
I tried to talk him out of coming. But apparently he's just bound and determined to get away from his mother by any means necessary, and besides, non-refundable ticket.
So whether I like it or not, suddenly this person I've never met and barely know anything about, is my problem.
Why me.
Like I said, it's arguable that I've been getting taken advantage of all along here. But at least it's been by my choice and with my eyes wide open as to what was going on, so that at the bottom line I have no one to blame but myself if it all goes wrong.
But now, this.
I want to give Ryudo a chance since he seems to want to earn his spot, but if he had bothered to even ask me about the viability of moving in here it probably would have come out that his lack of a driver's license is a severe handicap in this very automobile-dependent neighborhood in which the Party Cub Hub is located.
I just don't know if I can deal with this right now. Certainly my coping skills feel very weak right now. I have work I need to get done but I can't get my mind off what I'm being put through here.
Help?
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I worry for you.
I wish you find the answer.
Honestly you are dealing with this alot better than I am. Tak and I are the ones with our names on the lease,Tak would let almost anyone move here as he loves furry company, I how ever am very picky on who I even allow stay the night. Had someone done this to me I would have come severely unglued and everyone on here would have seen the nuclear explosives of a journal(s).
Admittedly, this wasn't planned well. However, it can work. Let me know if I can be of assistance in any way.