I know that feeling all too well, believe me. I've been single about seven years now, although I've made my attempts at dating. I've come to a similar conclusion myself recently. Relationships for me always seem to unravel, so for the most part, I try to avoid the idea in and of itself. I'd rather be single than to disappoint myself or someone else. But all in all, it's you that you have to be comfortable with at the end of the day. Love yourself before you love another. :)

Same here, only it'll be five years without somebody this coming May.

*hug*

I offer you all my sympathy. Breakups are hard, and affect the whole way you interact with the world, and it's normal and healthy to break down a little when a relationship breaks up.

BUT.

Don't get wrapped up in this Forever Alone nonsense. Your worth as a person doesn't depend on you having a relationship. People making that mistake is why 1/3 of marriages these days ends in divorce. Having a strong sense and appreciation for who you are as an individual is what draws relationships to you. Focus on that, and everything else will come in its own due time. Getting obsessed with the idea of being with someone, anyone, just for the sake of not being Forever Alone, isn't gonna take you anywhere relationship-wise you really want to be.

That being said, hope you feel better soon. It hurts but it's not the end of the world. Best of luck.