To your first one, Yes I do have a steam account, but I hardly use it, so it's easier to catch me on Skype than anywhere else. xD

And for the second one: Skyrim does use Steam for updates, and they just did a bunch of updates on the game recently, hence why you got that. I'm dreading turning my game on (I'm on Xbox), because I haven't played in months, and they've updated quite a bit since then! xD

well, last i played was December so, yeah, that's how much updating i had

Oh wow! Mine hasn't been that long! No wonder you had lots of updates, they just re-did part of the games programming to accommodate some of the new DLC's! XD I haven't played since, February, I think? Maybe I played once in March, not sure.

yeah, i dont have the money for the DLC stuff though

Yeah, I got lucky, and either had enough money at the time they came out, or else I got them as a gift, so I do have all the DLC's for it, sorry to say.