Over before I knew it
12 years ago
General
*ahem* meeeeee... mehhhhh... mahhhhh... mawwwww... maWOOOOOOooooooo....
I think it says a lot that when I just asked Sesame when Ryudo's bus was leaving, the answer turned out to be "eight hours ago".
The week-long experiment ended with not even so much as a goodbye between myself and him, nor most likely between anyone else besides Sesame and him. And while I doubt it will be completely forgotten, it won't exactly be memorable either.
What can I say about Ryudo. A young man stuck in his shell worse than I have ever been, and that is saying something. I'm not ashamed of our efforts to include him; but somehow some things just aren't meant to be.
I suppose I should at least allude to some of the things I heard about how he really wasn't what he represented himself to be. If he was a hard worker by nature, we never saw it. If he had an enjoyment of cooking, it never seemed to be in evidence. But I don't want to dwell on it all either. Call me a pollyanna but I think Ryudo is a better person than he was able to show us.
When Ryudo arrived I was actually fairly optimistic. Sesame was in a place where she badly needed someone to have a relationship with, and despite the unplanned nature of it, the timing seemed like it couldn't be better. And I guess that even though it didn't work out, Sesame does seem to have come out of it stronger.
Ryudo Fox spent a week in my house, and yet somehow it feels like we barely even met. I can only hope his next adventure in life turns out better.
The week-long experiment ended with not even so much as a goodbye between myself and him, nor most likely between anyone else besides Sesame and him. And while I doubt it will be completely forgotten, it won't exactly be memorable either.
What can I say about Ryudo. A young man stuck in his shell worse than I have ever been, and that is saying something. I'm not ashamed of our efforts to include him; but somehow some things just aren't meant to be.
I suppose I should at least allude to some of the things I heard about how he really wasn't what he represented himself to be. If he was a hard worker by nature, we never saw it. If he had an enjoyment of cooking, it never seemed to be in evidence. But I don't want to dwell on it all either. Call me a pollyanna but I think Ryudo is a better person than he was able to show us.
When Ryudo arrived I was actually fairly optimistic. Sesame was in a place where she badly needed someone to have a relationship with, and despite the unplanned nature of it, the timing seemed like it couldn't be better. And I guess that even though it didn't work out, Sesame does seem to have come out of it stronger.
Ryudo Fox spent a week in my house, and yet somehow it feels like we barely even met. I can only hope his next adventure in life turns out better.
OzzieKitSkunk
~ozziekitskunk
Yeah, I do feel bad about how it turned out, but we rarely talked or anything. The longest talk we had was when he was in the car with us yesterday. He seemed to open up a bit to me n Tavi, but by then I guess the damage was done. He seems like a very nice guy and was probably overwhelmed at how big the house was and how things function here. I just hope things do eventually work out for him.
RyudoFox9
~ryudofox9
Im very sorry to have put you through all that. I guess what i needed was a bit more time to cope with my surroundings. sesame told me right off the bat that even if i tried cooking something, the palletes of the household would be all over the place, which kinda turned me off on the idea. the hard working side of me isn't something shown voluntarily. I have absolutely no problem taking orders. in fact I prefer it. It was the lack of communication on my part that resulted in things not getting done. I was more focused on trying to be around sesame, but I felt like there was just so many things she wasn't telling me. I swear to you that If i would have known these things sooner, i would have done everything and anything to straighten my act. When I saw her constantly in the living room, or off doing her own things, i felt likek she was distancing herself from me. as if all the magic was wasted on the first encounter. I don't know what else to say. This is not like me in the slightest. I know it felt like a disaster, and i bear no ill will. I just wish I wasn't so quiet.
Savaaha
~savaaha
I had hoped this would work for Sesame and for everyone else. Housemates always bring change and sometimes they click and sometimes not. Atleast it was realized quickly that this wasn't working instead of dragging out and causing a lot of animosity. We had such happen here a few years ago.
maskedllama
~maskedllama
Good luck in the future, Ryudo!
aerospacerocks840
~aerospacerocks840
I truly do hope that this worked out in some capacity for Sesame and everyone else in your household. I know it seems like you barely knew him but sometimes housemates will work out and sometimes they wont, I do hope that sesame is holding in there at least somewhat and I wish all of you guys the best.
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