Lasting long in bed (naughty journal)
12 years ago
General
Here is something I find interesting. I've talked with people who last a while in bed, both as a top or as bottom. A while for me would be about 30 min or more.
There are tops who can go that long or more straight fucking. While there are bottoms who can handle being fucked for that long without complaining of soreness. Are you one of those people on either end? If so, did you learn how to do it or did it come naturally? Do you like being able to last that long?
Or maybe you don't like topping/bottoming being that long and think shorter time is better because at a point, it gets too drawn out.
Just curious what people's thoughts are ^^
There are tops who can go that long or more straight fucking. While there are bottoms who can handle being fucked for that long without complaining of soreness. Are you one of those people on either end? If so, did you learn how to do it or did it come naturally? Do you like being able to last that long?
Or maybe you don't like topping/bottoming being that long and think shorter time is better because at a point, it gets too drawn out.
Just curious what people's thoughts are ^^
FA+

but when a single orgasm is getting drawn out, it can certainly start to feel old or a bit too routine, since I'm assuming we're starting the clock from the initial point of penetration.
I last a decent time, but I don't think sex needs to be treated like a marathon, and especially if I can make my partner climax, i'm usually quite capable of pushing myself to orgasm quickly so that it's even more of a shared experience. So if a partner is leaning a bit more towards the quick-shooter side, I can speed myself up. Lasting longer if they want a marathon session is sometimes more difficult.
but. Climaxing then taking a quick snooze while snuggling, then waking up to go at it again. Lion style. Lots of fun.
~Foxy
I am insanely gentle as a 'top', I haven't received reports of my causing much soreness. I barely actually move lol. Just the slight jiggling or squirming will finish me off no problem.
I don't like being mounted because I don't like the soreness associated with people pounding me in the ass, and last time someone caused me to bleed so I have stopped allowing that all together.