I usually try to wait until the bottom reaches orgasm, then I can force myself over the edge fairly quickly. Mutual enjoyment! Helps with the shared or bonded experience.

Mostly getting a feel for your partner. What angles work for them, what their body responds to. And finding the angle that you really like and can help push you over the edge later when you need it.

^^^ This! This so hard!

That's pretty cool you have such control over yourself... and quite generous attitude of you too, I might add. ^^

I'm not sure if it's generous so much...

Perhaps it might be tied into dominance and control. I'm gonna make you cum, bitch.

Meow~ I can get behind that.

I believe your position would be in front of actually...

Is reaching orgasm "too early" a common problem? My experience is that most tops usually can't get off from anal sex at all. So I wouldn't be too embarrassed, I guess. If anything, I think that would be nice, because you could always force yourself to hold back by masturbating 20-30 minutes beforehand. Or you could just do it twice!

Flip, it really varies - some tops can't get off from anal, some get off "very quickly". For me it depends in part on the bottom, in part on how pent up I am. I've had cases where I'm about to pop after 30 seconds, I've had other cases where I just can't get off no matter how long I go at it. I've bottomed for guys on both ends of the spectrum as well, and everywhere in between. When you've got good sexual chemistry with your partner, though, you can keep the sex going for as long as you both want, and when it's time to get off, can do so almost 'on demand'. (With practice and experience with a single partner, you learn what you can do as either a bottom or a top to send him over the edge.)

As I said before, I like to wait till my partner cums and then cum myself. Im all about pleasing my partner.

I'd say being able to last as long as you want is probably one of the if not the best talent to have as a top :3

Its pretty nice. It means all of my partners are very satisfied. lol