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Am I relationship worthy?
12 years ago
All you have to decide is what to do with the time that has given to you.
So just today, I've been thinking about where I stand in life...
Since Dads death, it had made me realize questions about myself that I need to answer for myself yet I'm just going to post them on here and ask for your opinions on these questions.
Like here is one, am I worthy to be a boyfriend? Granted I know I can be a good friend to most of my peeps on here. But to be honest I'm ready for a relationship yet most guys on fa tends to want an open relationship. Granted I am not judging anyone on their preferences of relationships; just I prefer to be a loyal dirty dragon with my lover.
Also why I it that all the good ones are taken? When I mean good ones I mean a certain type of guy is already taken yet I'm hitting and flirting with him still like a bad dragon trying to sell bad dragon toys. It threatens my morals and standards about myself...and I don't want to do that. Have regrets and doubt my capabilities of being a loyal man, yet I flirt anyways!
I've been single for about what, eight years now? It really sucks and hits you like a ton of bricks. And before you ask maybe I should try dating outside the furry fandom, I have tried going out/date and those motherfuckers all they want is sex and nothing more. Also to make you their bitch and I'm no ones bitch.
So I am asking you my friends....am I capable lover? I know I have issues but still an I?
Since Dads death, it had made me realize questions about myself that I need to answer for myself yet I'm just going to post them on here and ask for your opinions on these questions.
Like here is one, am I worthy to be a boyfriend? Granted I know I can be a good friend to most of my peeps on here. But to be honest I'm ready for a relationship yet most guys on fa tends to want an open relationship. Granted I am not judging anyone on their preferences of relationships; just I prefer to be a loyal dirty dragon with my lover.
Also why I it that all the good ones are taken? When I mean good ones I mean a certain type of guy is already taken yet I'm hitting and flirting with him still like a bad dragon trying to sell bad dragon toys. It threatens my morals and standards about myself...and I don't want to do that. Have regrets and doubt my capabilities of being a loyal man, yet I flirt anyways!
I've been single for about what, eight years now? It really sucks and hits you like a ton of bricks. And before you ask maybe I should try dating outside the furry fandom, I have tried going out/date and those motherfuckers all they want is sex and nothing more. Also to make you their bitch and I'm no ones bitch.
So I am asking you my friends....am I capable lover? I know I have issues but still an I?
1. I learned to accept my lover as a friend.
2. Once a love relationship is broken, never come back to it, but make a different relationship like friendship.
3. Never give up your beliefs.
For you, I would have to say you more prefer a friend than a lover. Which there is nothing wrong with that. It's hard to find a person with that type of personality in a relationship. Now a days, there has been a big majority of people just wanting to have sex instead of them wanting them as friend in the relationship. I wish some people would understand that friendship is important in a love relationship because if it's sex sex sex, the love relationship gets old and dry quickly like bread. You do have the capability to love, just have to patient to find the right kind of love. I have waited four years to have find the right type of love and I happy with ^^ My boyfriend has been single for 14 years till he found me. So, take your time.
Kole, you are my one and only friend. That means not only do you mean everything to me, but I constantly think about you as well. Every time you're on my mind you make me smile, even through the shit times lately, you give me something to smile about. You are an amazing person with very little problems. You always put others in front of yourself and always try to make the best of the situation. I don't agree with the saying, "there is someone for everyone" because it simply isn't true; their are some people who are destined to be alone. HOWEVER, if anyone ever made me think there was another for them it would be you. Everything you do, each way you act, any word you say, all make you the best person I know. What little baggage you have never gets in the way and you easily recover from hard times and bad situations that would otherwise cripple others. No, someone destined to be alone does not include even a hair of you that place can't touch you; you are too much and to valuable for it.
I wish I could be more like you.
As a person, as a friend, as a lover, as whatever.
but that isn't going to be the correct answer to your question because I do not know your personality.
The best way to find out if you are relationship worthy (*note* this is just my opinion) is to get out there and explore, talk to people : gay, straight, bisexual people doesn't matter at all,just be yourself and you'll find out the answers you are looking for in no time.
(bay the way I'm looking for a boyfriend myself so don't be shy to contact me ;)