I now get more pleasure from music I have never heard before, well-constructed, intensely emotional music, than I EVER have from sex. (I hope my partners disagree, but I find this is true for me.) This is true both for reasons that it takes a lot to get me to enjoy a sexual experience--emotional connection, intimacy, and trust, which is hard enough for me to establish away from the screen, let alone on it--and the fact that I am a MONSTEROUS audiophile and have secret primal urges to buy a keyboard and learn to play.