Closing the door on the White Knight Complex...
12 years ago
Pieces of my Mind...
So, I now have finally gotten my divorce started from my second wife. This has been a long process mostly due to me dragging my own feet on the issue. However in the process of getting the paperwork together; My ex let somethings slip to me and now I am wondering what the hell I am going to due. She told me that she is about to become homeless, that her son has a brain tumor and that there is no one there to help her. All I could say to her was "I'm Sorry to hear that." I will admit this I am torn in many directions, one direction is to empathizes with her, direction two is an attitude of too bad too sad. The third is I want to rub her nose in it.
I am torn in multiple directions, instead I walk away. It is no longer my problem, no longer my issue. She wanted to be divorced from me, which is why I had been dragging my feet on the issue. When she and I had started to go out, all I offered to her then and even now is an open and honest heart. Her first ex-husband has been slow to pay if pay at all on child support. Her son having a brain tumor (so she tells me). I just don't know anymore, right now I am walking away, it is no longer my concern or issue. I am closing the chapter on the White Knight.
I am torn in multiple directions, instead I walk away. It is no longer my problem, no longer my issue. She wanted to be divorced from me, which is why I had been dragging my feet on the issue. When she and I had started to go out, all I offered to her then and even now is an open and honest heart. Her first ex-husband has been slow to pay if pay at all on child support. Her son having a brain tumor (so she tells me). I just don't know anymore, right now I am walking away, it is no longer my concern or issue. I am closing the chapter on the White Knight.
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