"You need to stop keeping yourself from being happy. Do you know how absolutely frustrating it is to try and cheer you up or help you to BE happy, only to have you shut me down because you're scared of being successful or happy for once and still experiencing pain? EVERYONE ELSE in life has their happy and their bad moments, not just you. As your mate, this is really, really hard on me because I have been trying so damn hard to help you realize this, but you refuse to believe me. You need to move out of your grandfathers and aunts house, because they're only reinforcing your belief of this, as well as doing their best to MAKE you miserable. I wish you could see and feel how much this affects me when you get like this..."