BAD JOURNAL PLZ IGNORE /WHINING/
13 years ago
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I don't know how to react to this. My best friend for over 5 years has replaced me and seems to enjoy throwing it in my face, and I still love him so i don't really know how to handle this but he's told me that i'm not allowed to like anyone but him and that I can only be attracted to him and I DON'T KNOW.
His friends think I'm awful for whatever reason and that i'm controlling him from what he's told them but?? i didn't really.. do anything to control him.. it's more the other way around considering that i had to break up with my girlfriend a few months ago because of him being jealous.......
squints really hard
i hate people./sorry about this i needed somewhere to sort of semi-vent/whine .....
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For me, personally, the best thing to do with people like this is cut all ties...though I know that could be difficult considering the fact you've been friends for so long.
Maybe talk to him about it? And if he acts too unreasonable then it'd be best to move on
Sorryimnotthebestatadvice afkgjsdg but if you ever need to vent more you can feel free to note me any time okay ;o;
I've tried to cut all ties with him though and it just made me upset because people would link me to pictures he'd post and it'd upset me for whatever reason if they had his friends in it because he told me I could never make him happy and sgdfsgdh. I DUNNO I'M SORRY.
He probably isn't a great person considering that it's been like this for the past few months now and he still throws it in my face and uses every little thing I did in the past that upset him against me.
I wouldn't mind so much but he likes to say that he 'misses how we used to be' when he makes no effort of changing/being how we used to be. aargh
Thank you so much though!!!!
Whatever happens though, I wish you the best of luck!! gghdfgh //hug <3
why is your friend mean to you you are a nice person
i have no profound advice and i am bad comforting so just know
that anytime i am online i can talk to you and be there
even though i am awkward and do not know what to say
kissu e u e
kiss for eternity
my kisses are warm little...........inchworms.........of love and comfort ok
I was fine staying as just his friend but he won't even let me be that anymore and is rather more interested in trying to make me jealous for whatever reason.
/He actually said that if we weren't more than friends that we couldn't even be friends at the start so that's.. How that came about../
i can tell you now, though, that it isn't 'the best thing to do' to cut ties, it is something you need to do because their behavior is literally textbook abusive boyfriend.
I tried to do this today and he made a few new skypes to try to contact me on despite blocking them all..
ugh.
I'm regretting not listening.if they know your tumblr/anywhere you vent, stop talking about them. literally erase them from ever having made an impact on you. if you drew for them, delete the pictures. if you're serious about them no longer being in your life then take steps to make sure you're not going to look back on it and feel nostalgic or like you should give them another chance. it's getting to the point where they're considered beyond toxic and by what you've told me in the past they're purposely manipulating you. saying things like 'you're fucking stupid' and then 'don't cry i care so much about you' when they upset you with their insults are big red flashing lights. it's a way of putting you down but pulling you back in so they're purposely in control of you, what you look like, what you act like, and who you talk to by making you entirely dependent on them. i'm not gonna lie, i've seen the posts on tumblr and it really shows just how short your leash is because they're the reason you feel so badly about yourself and the only person you're ever upset about.
if you don't do this then there's really nothing else i or anybody can tell you. it's up to you.
My friend has kind of become the thing that stops me from being happy because whenever I /am/ actually happy, he drags me back down so it's probably definitely for the best despite the fact that I'm ridiculously sentimental and don't know how to get rid of things I'm actually attached to!! SOBS.
I really do sincerely appreciate it Alex.
Thank you so much.
:(
i wish u well. hopefully you can get out of this rut
storm/temper tantrum bc HOLLY DOESNT LISTEN 2 OUR PROFOUND advice
ill just beat him up for you ok