I hope you don't mind but this video will also help out quite a few. This is a good friend of mine, Eagle. http://www.youtube.com/watch?featur.....;v=R7WPx-y__pY

his tumblr is http://eagle-summers.tumblr.com/

He honestly helped me out without even trying XD i also had a few friends too so if anyone needs help you can just ask. It's hard to go at it alone sometimes.

Thanks for sharing this link, someone that is confused might come across this and it may help them :3 I watched it and it was a good watch :)

you're welcome. Eagle is a really good friend of mine and im sure there will be more video's later but he's hit a technological wall XD

heheh yeah I've been a fan of his, I like his videos and site :3 but never met him ^^

I've only talked to him on skype and I'm supposed to be helping him with his stuff in the near future. I just need to talk to him before I can get started.

That was a great vid, helped me understand better c:

:P hehehe ^^

This was a great explanation, especially when you didn't fail to mention that it has nothing to do with their orientation. c:

yesh that's true, I'm glad you like the explanation I believe that it doesn't matter what orientation you are it doesn't mean you're a femboi or not

Hey! This is a great idea, but one thing.

When referring to those who are MTF Transgendered it's extremely offensive to call them "Ladyboys". The whole thing about being MTF is being a woman trapped in a man's body, ergo those who are MTF Transgendered are actually WOMEN not "ladyboys" or "shemales" or whatever people like to call them.

I know I didn't write that bit it was on urban dictionary and on most sites that define it. But yes I will be rewording it, I really was not trying to insult people :3

how does it read now doll?

Looks great, you mixed up "MTF" with "FTM" in the first bit but other than that it's perfect. Thanks!

ahahah oops sorry dear XD will fix that, thank you for letting me know about this whole thing :3

Im not sure if I would be considered a femboy, mainly because I honestly don't care how I dress, and I honestly havent tried dressing
up as a female ^^;

Well I think being a femboy is more about the fashion sense. You could be just feminine in appearance and nature but still not into wearing dresses. By in nature I mean emotionally and well personality, down to the activities you seem to like doing.

Hmm... Well I've always been tolerant of both shows made for girls and shows made for boys (power puff girls a and my little pony FIM being good examples and always being willing to give the shows an honest try before making any opinions on them) and as well as tolerant of any sexual preferences, clothing tastes, what have you.

I would classify myself as "Don't knock it till you try it" mindset

It seemed like a long time passed. In my opinion, if you can find clothes you like from this website https://femboyoutfit.com/, then you are basically a femboy

Is there a difference between a femboy and a femboi? Or is that just different ways to write it :3

just two different ways of spelling it :P

Okai! Cute! Well I'm both anyway

can i have a hug im kind of shy about being a femboi

-huggles Leon- Welcome!

thanks

Femboy and fembois are the same meaning just different spelling. Also femboys can be any age its just publicised that it is young boys. It is just as it says above ^^Femboys are guys that are very in touch with their feminine side personalty wise or wear female clothes or has feminine characteristics while still being a male.

hope that helps!

Ive had people call me a trap and others call me a femyboy, can i be both? Or is it a one or the other thing.

a trap and femboy are very similar you may be both. Femboys are guys that are very in touch with their feminine side personalty wise or wear female clothes or has feminine characteristics while still being a male. Trap basically means it is hard to tell if the person is a girl or not and a guy or not it works for both genders. For you it would mean you look too girly to the point from certain views you could be mistaken as a girl ^^ Hope this helps

It does, thank you very much for replying

I have a femboy for a pet, and I love him to pieces
I support this group wholeheartedly!

thank you very much! We appreciate the support!

There is nothing wrong with acting feminine just be you and change for no one :3

Thats a really good explanation ^^ I hope that the members have a appreciative family and friends! Its hard to live with such a wish, out of the normal. (I DONT mean that negative!) Im lesbian. My mum understands me, she is trying to support me as much as she can. I just wish you much luck for the future. Stay as you are and dont change for some one who wants it! Thats your sight of life. And for the members who are going to school, i hope youre not an victim of mobbing, i know how it is the feeling to be mobbend and lougjed out. Hope you understand how i mean all that, im from Germany.
Much geetings from the Sergal Vilou :3

- Me I'm a bisexual girl so I like both and when I was younger my family did not approve at all and I went through some hard times but my gay best friend was there for me and gave me confidence. I believe you should never change yourself for anyone, and those are lovely wishes, I'm from England :3

Theres one thing in my life that will always be true. I love fembois they sexeh as hell

I'm still a little confused if I might be a femboy or not.

Have you came across any groups for the females who dress like males by any chance?

Not at this moment given in time but I'll keep a look out and I'll let you know personally if I find something

Very much appreciated~~~

Not exactly sure if I would be considered a femboi ^^" I like dressing in girly clothing sometimes because I'm too self conscious to do it more often but if I wasn't so self conscious I would dress girly a bit more often. I like feminine clothing and if I see something cute/sexy I sometimes want to try out the outfit ^\\\^ I look kinda femmi which I prefer to but I classify my self as male and and in no manner classify my self as female. I don't exactly act "girly" I act more "femi" by the way I move and especially how I dance which is actually girly I guess? I like the idea of wearing girly clothing time to time as well and if I get the chance I will wear femi stuff for some kinky stuff in the bedroom. Just curious on what you think, if this would classify me as a femboi or what thank you ^\\\\^

Gily/femi is all the same not much different and there are different levels, a femboy could be someone with just feminine personality, or soft feminine looks so most definitely you are considered a femboy. A femboy is a biological male that is not a female or identify themselves as one. From what was written above it should have been clear that exactly how you described yourself would be considered a femboy :3. Just because you like female clothes, dressing cute and sexy does not make you female! So stay strong!

To be considered a real defined textbook femboy you have to be biologically male or be post-op transgender. If you are a female wanting to be a male that dresses as a girl that defeats the purpose of being a transgender (Nearly all Transgender want to be the opposite gender and exhibits behaviour showing so) However in the realm of the internet/3d worlds anyone can be a femboy. This isn't to be mean or closed minded, I'm the most open minded person you will ever meet, until the definition is changed this is how it is.

Just as gender identity is separate from sexuality, so is "gender expression". Clothing styles beyond function are just aesthetics. They are assigned genders by society, and there is nothing inherent about them like actual gender identity. Any boy, regardless of sex, who is "feminine" can identify as a femboy.

I want to know how you feel about gender-fuild people? I have a pal who is and they are most times male or nothing at all.

Could Someone Who Is Gender-Fluid Also Be Considered A Femboi?

Well Technically A Genderfluid Is Femboy When They Appear More Feminine. Because The Definition Of Genderfluid Is: Gender Fluid is a gender identity best described as a dynamic mix of boy and girl. A person who is Gender Fluid may always feel like a mix of the two traditional genders, but may feel more boy some days, and more girl other days. Being Gender Fluid has nothing to do with which set of genitalia one has, nor their sexual orientation.
Which Would Mean That A Genderfluid COULD Be A Femboy, But Doesn't Have To Be

Also Nting The Fact That Bigender Is Very Similar To Genderfluid In Definition. The Definition Of Bigender Being: The tendacy to move between masculine and feminine gender-typed behaviour depending on context, expressing a distinctly male persona and a distinctly female persona.
While an androgynous person retains the same gender-typed behaviour across situations, the bigendered person purposely changes their gender-role behaviour for the situation. It is particularly noteworthy that this concept emerged from within the transgender community rather than being adopted by the transgender community after it was created by another sub-culture (e.g. transsexual was defined first by the mental health community).

I Am A Male Though, Genderflud Is An Agender Term

But You Said That "I was just stating that the page owner for this group insists you must be born with a penis to ever be a femboi." As If Because I Said That I Was Genderfluid, Like That Term Only Applies To Females

Oh, My Mistake,Sorry ^^;

So I know that stupid but...if i feel as female...but i wear male clothing and only around my partners I act as female...did i Still count as femboy or something else? :/

Take everything I say with a grain of salt; I'm still really confused* about the whole gender thing.

The fact that you "feel as female" sounds to me like you may be MTF transgender. Wearing male clothing and fitting that gender role when you're not with your partners sounds like you're just not out yet. I hope you've found peace in the ~3 years since you've posted your query on this fairly inactive thread that I just stumbled across!


* I think I'm femboy or MTF transgender at heart. But I'm not coming out publicly (or buying laser hair removal, etc) until I have a solid financial buffer. So I pass as male by default because it's easy and socioeconomically useful.

It defently puts in perspective then a bisexual girl saying it means a feminine boy

I’m very in touch with my feminine side but I’m .... dedinitely not a femboy at all... just because I don’t act very boyish...

I’m so not a femboy! *blushes hard*

I found out I was femboy in my younger youth after digging through my mothers underwear drawer and
trying on a few pairs, something clicked that day, but due to being an instilled catholic at the time no way
did I allow my parents to know anything about those times I dressed girly other wise risk the belt.

Basically traps ?

I feel femboi at heart but find that I am cursed with a very male/bear boby. I love wearing femmy clothing and have been told I am the female in my relationship due to my actions and personality. Am I still a femboi?

Yes, if you want to be. You just have more challenges (laser hair removal, etc?) towards reaching your ideal self.

It's been so quiet I didn't expect a response. Thanks.

femboy don't have to be biologically male, trans boys can be femboys too

fembois are amazing :>

trans men can be femboys too jsyk lmao

I don’t even know if I am a femboi. I am more feminine than masculine, but I don’t dress as a female. I guess I’m more feminine in the sense that I am more understanding, sensitive, and emotional than most guys. So am I a femboi?

For being very shy and nervous in social interaction I turned to be a bit more and more feminine since I was staying home alone and always... well, I just got pretty feminine alone (and with the help of the internet of course...... yiff....)
this kinda makes me uncomfortable, cuz I was born with a very... and when I say very I mean VERY masculine body, which despite the good things there are things I really don't like -w-''
so much body hair for example
I'm 1.83+ m and not that I hate it, but it's hard to find someone taller (not that I wouldn't date someone smaller, but preferences y'know<3)

Well, soon I will make it look better so I can feel more comfortable with... and wear the clothes I want to wear without looking so creepy nwn''''

Are transmasc people that dress or look feminine included? ^^

A few things worth noting for anyone reading this nowadays, the term "trap" can be considered kind of offensive to some people, so it's a good idea to take care in using it, unless you're sure it won't offend whoever you're speaking with.

The term "biologically male" as its used here is a bit dated. Many trans people will use the term "assigned male/female at birth" instead, as transphobes have, unfortunately, used the "biological" term rather maliciously, and it's left a sour taste in some people's mouths.

Transgender also may be preferred over transsexual, as the latter term was originally a medical term that a lot of people hold issues with for various reasons.

Not trying to be overly "um actually" with this, I just figure that if anyone's reading this journal, they might possibly be new to or exploring gender related concepts, and learning in advance what's touchy can help to avoid awkward situations with others~

And a final note that terms tend to change over time, so even these might end up being out of date at some point.