i said it once and ill say it again. you just cant choose who you love. it just happens. in the blink of an eye it could happen. the one. Her or him. You two could be complete opposites but for what ever reasoning your heart screams love for that person. ive seen it. ive watched it happen and unfold before my very eyes. in some cases its a grand wonderful thing...but in others its only pain and misery. i know ive been there with her but those days are over. I guess what im trying to say is this. Who ever your with if you love them then stay with them. fight for them. LIVE for them. fight may happen but get over it. pain will ensue so toughen up against it. Love...is a wonderful thing when you have so hold on tight and dont let go. :)