This is why exes should remain exes and leave it at that. " Can we still be friends? " Fuck ... that ... shit.

people in general suck o.,o

i agree with the puppy ^^;;

*hug* yeah they do suck -_-

I'm inclined to disagree, or else, what other hope have we?

lol well the people who suck suck not u guys XD

all the time u u

I know exactly how you feel Miz.. I been there. My ex GF dumped me soon after I gave her an engagement ring, she was the person at that time I thought we would be together and I was ok to spend the rest of my life with at that point. She ended up with some guy that made her miserable and left her in the streets with nothing. I helped her out and again asked if she would like to get together again, and she said no, even though I was the best person she ever had been with, and finally she ended up marrying the guy and now has 2 daughters. It took me a couple of years to overcome my feelings for her, and then I met someone else that I care about a lot, and I think we could be a great couple since we get along really well, but she is far away and she is now engaged to someone else. And here I am, still alone. So... yeah.. I think I know the feeling.

It seems that people around us don't have all the things that we look for or we are not what they are looking for, but hey.. I still believe that if I was able to find 2 different persons in quite far away places one from another, there must be more around that can be a good match for us. Maybe near, maybe far, but don't loose the hope. Just don't hurt yourself waiting and wanting to find them soon, try to live your life and enjoy whatever comes. And in the meantime you can have a few of the things you are looking for in other people close by, even if they just give you a little piece of the things that you are looking for.

As you said, if only some of us lived closer to each other, at least we could just hang out and have a nice time ^^

Hopefully we will meet sometime again Miz, and at the very least I could give you some of the big Panda hugs that I should have given you the first time we met.

Take care Miz.. and try to cheer up ^^ *Hugs you a long lasting big Panda hug and smiles*

I"m sorry to hear you're feeling like this. I wish I could help you out :P wish I Could be a friend there to hang out with you when you need it. I'm sure a gal as great as you will find a guy who's amazing and turns into a great friend for you. ^.^

aww!! thank you! I know u would be a great person to hang out with and be there for me ^_^ but I guess sometimes distance ruins things but at least we can still chat with each other, we havent dont that in a while though

you're right about it being to long since we last talked. But i know you've been busy with your schooling and we've just not been on chats at the same time. but it is great to know you think i would be a great person to hang with :P hopefully we're able to talk more in the future again.

I broke up with my ex-GF months ago and I feel great. Any who, I wouldn't mind dating again but society is really back and forth. Guys want girls to take care of them and women want guys to take care of all their problems. No one really want to take care of each other. On top of that, you have to be willing to take care of yourself as well. I work out to stay physically fit as well as working on getting a job and taking care of my bills. I would like a companion to be similar. Ya also have to be reliable to another and be able to help each other in a real crisis. Not a leech that wants to milk every dollar out of you like Capcom.

you are right, I am not looking to be taken care of i think it goes both ways, I like being there for someone if they are also there for me, I am glad u feel good though and working on urself

Thanks.

I got lucky: my girlfriend of three years moved to Portland after she left me (I live in Texas), and I haven't heard from her since. XP No stress, no "let's just be friends still". If I loved someone for three years, friendship isn't something I'm looking for from them. Now, on the other hand I have an ex-girlfriend in Tennessee who got back in touch with me shortly after my breakup (it had been about four years since I last talked to her), and we're good friends now. It's just different for different people, I think.

But yeah, this recent one (I've been single for three-and-a-half years now) really jacked me up. I really didn't see myself with anyone else, but she had different plans. She was nerdy and fun to be with, and didn't seem to mind my furry stuff (except for the porn, I had to give that up). Too bad I had to go and introduce her to "Mr. Right". :P

heh ooh, well I hope you find that person you match well with thought, I feel the same way with just wanting to be with that person only but they may not want anything to do with you anymore and its hard to handle sometimes

Thanks. :3
I know. When she first broke up with me I couldn't eat right for weeks. I lost around 15 pounds. :P
I'm much better off now, and I have much bigger things to worry about, anyway.

I hope you get to feeling better!

I think I can understand what you're feeling.
My ex dumped me the 31 december 2009 (night), and I was still loving her as fuck. She then proceeded to date one of my friends. So I tried the "Stay friends" thing for over six months. It tore me apart, since I was still having strong feelings for her for almost two years after the breakup. Since then, I felt like life was colorless, tasteless, I was in a deep depression for three years. Seeing couples in the streets was killing me, and I felt like I was alone on Earth, even though some people cared for me, but I wasn't able to notice it back then. I had very dark thoughts.
I was still hoping for an absurd miracle, thinking that time would eventually make me forget about it.

Now if I could go back in time, I'd find myself and slap me a good hundred times. Life is a long adventure with its ups and downs, starring potential 6 billions characters. Don't let one of them bring you down. I know you can't quite control those kind of feelings, but being sad/happy is just a state of mind, depending on your way to see things. You will find what you're looking for. Just give yourself a chance to do so! :)

Hope I'm not re-opening an healing wound. But since I kind of know how it feels, I just can't abstain to share my point of view. Someday you will think of what happened back then, and feel guilty for ever feeling down because of what you wrote in jour journal. Then, you'll laugh of it :)