after much thought I have a new light born within me something yes i kinda well already thought about but I far more understanding of a concept that I my self believed in. It has put my mind in a really tranquil peaceful state of mind.

I accepted that i can't make people accept you and that you really should accept yourself as well if others don't. Don't fear or take the abuse personally instead dodge it and stay steadfast in your beliefs let them decide if they think your doing it wrong or what ever.

of course it goes without saying accept others for themselves don't force them to be you or take away from them their freedom becuase then you would be just doing the same thing they did to you that doesn't move things forward it only stalls you and them out.

there is no single right way to live life nor is there any manuals on how to do it don't fool yourself into thinking there is no matter how society makes it seem like there is so live your life the way you want and help those around you live theirs