... relationship. My boyfriend and I are fully committed to each other and we want to be together forever. But we also want a third person in our relationship. Not just for sex and stuff but like I would call both of them my boyfriend and it would be all of us together. We don't want an open relationship or to go swinging because we want sex to be about love not just for the pleasure so we don't want random people like that. We actually have a guy in mind but I really don't know how to broach that topic with someone. I don't know how to ask a person out into a three person relationship. Any advice?