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HERES WHAT'S GOING ON!
12 years ago
So me and this bastard 
rutofteaching have split, he's acting like a child and is so fucking sick in his head he has stolen back adult toys I have used.... He can't get it through his thick skull I'm think about the best for my daughter, she doesn't need to be around a grown man who likes a child after getting broken up with.... he's extremely forgetful, his anger flares at the slightest thing, he seems to only give a shit about his games, can't accept changes, and he's blaming me for shit.... he thinks this split up is mostly my fault because I'm apparently such a whore and a liar... you want to know who is the whore and lair it's him.... he can't fucking control himself, while he was out from his trucking training he actually complicated cheating on me while I was fucking pregnant with his flesh and blood, he then proceeded to hide it from me, he's lied to me about a lot of shit, and now he's stolen used adult toys.... Tell How many agree that this break up was for the best?
rutofteaching have split, he's acting like a child and is so fucking sick in his head he has stolen back adult toys I have used.... He can't get it through his thick skull I'm think about the best for my daughter, she doesn't need to be around a grown man who likes a child after getting broken up with.... he's extremely forgetful, his anger flares at the slightest thing, he seems to only give a shit about his games, can't accept changes, and he's blaming me for shit.... he thinks this split up is mostly my fault because I'm apparently such a whore and a liar... you want to know who is the whore and lair it's him.... he can't fucking control himself, while he was out from his trucking training he actually complicated cheating on me while I was fucking pregnant with his flesh and blood, he then proceeded to hide it from me, he's lied to me about a lot of shit, and now he's stolen used adult toys.... Tell How many agree that this break up was for the best?
Fringecore
~fringecore
Honestly, I think that both of you need to just stop dividing the house and think best for your child. Now your husband might be a ass and done unspeakable things, but you have to also consider that he had to give up a lot to uproot and move to where your family is. He went through that trucking job to get a better life for you all, now temptation came, but did he come back and say, I'm leaving you and the baby for this person? No. He went and got another job considering the climate for it. I won't say he isn't deserving of some sort of punishment, but throwing him out, especially during this nasty winter, could kill him literally. I think you guys might also need to look for a place of your own somehow, because being with family can grind on the gears and that's what it sounds like your husband trying to work out the stress eating him from being that situation. Now take my word as you will, but that's how I see it.
Bellevian
~bellevian
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We're done, I'm not staying with anyone who has no way of controlling their anger, I will not put my daughter in danger because I love someone... He's been greedy in means of claiming others as "his" he's been control, I've tried to change myself for him. I gave up a lot of things myself... He could have always said no if he didn't want to uproot and what no one remembers is I uprooted and moved across the country for him too... and he's not my husband never was, we never married which now I see as a good thing if it wasn't for the baby I would still be with him, but for her I left him so he wouldn't have to worry about being a parent or controlling his anger, or listening to her screaming... I got tired of asking him to try and get to know his daughter.. I had to ASK him.... a real father figure wouldn't have to be asked.... but with him he was more interested in playing games and fucking.... I have one child to deal with and I cannot take having to deal with an adult who acts as a child. I've had to grow up a lot faster then I wanted because of him and the baby.... I gave up my dreams because I loved him and had his child.... it short I gave up a lot more then people see and now because of all this my name has been smeared in the mud and I've had people threatening to take my child from me because I did what I thought was best for my daughter... I'm sorry I pissed him and put in the state he is in but I do not need his bullshitted attitude and him saying "Oh well I'm pent up why do you never give me sex." "I can't handled her." "She's giveing me a headache." My daughter needs a real father not someone who is greedy controlling and has unspoken thoughts of her... I will not have a man like him around her.
