Do your parents know...?
12 years ago
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How many of you have parents who know you're a furry or at least a part of the fandom? If so do they accept it or do they try to change you or are grossed out about it?
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But that's in the past and we have made amends, and also they recognized that I am who I am...a AZ State Law Enforcement Officer, a US Marine and a loving husband to my wife whom I've been with for almost 14 years now.
So, yes one day I do plan on showing them that I'm back into the fandom and its my life and my choice to live life to the fullest.
anyways thanks for answering =)
heh
no problem
My mom is a hardcore CSI fan. she connected the dots super quick.
It was not a conversation I enjoyed and would ever want to repeat. Mother was not accepting of this.
Honestly. I'd prefer if she never knew
Until Season 4 of CSI came out. We were both fans. I told he when she watched the infamous 'Fur and Loathing' to call me right away.
THe conversation went something like this.
"Hey (Deep's Real Name), I saw that episode you told me about."
Okay, Mom, I can explain...
"What's to explain? It's TV! Sex sells! 'Course it isn't entirely like that!"
We then talked about how the characters themselves addressed the topic IN character, and nothing really changed. Grissom was fascinated, Catherine cracked wise regardless of how comfortable or not she was with what was going on, etc.
My Mom is awesome.
So ya.....noooooooooooooooooooo
While when I explained it to my mother she figured out that she is also a furry.
My sister briefly entered the fandom, but i don't think she knows the shenanigans i get up to here x3
Funny thing about admitting sexuality; when i told my dad i was bi, he just went 'I already knew, i've been waiting for you to say that.' Safe to say i was confused :'3 But they're chill with that.
I'm 31 now. They don't mention it, but know that there will be at least two Sundays out of the year that I won't be available to help them at their church because I'm either in Pittsburgh or Chicago (AC or MFF). LOL
My brother's cool with it. He thinks it's quirky and weird, but enjoys the art I show him.
As far as admitting sexuality, heh. I attempted to breach this subject with them back when I was 18. Yeah, do the math. This was before I told them I was furry. I was tired of lying to them and it was beginning to drive me insane. I put on a smile and pretended like nothing was the matter when inside I was screaming. Again, my dad was still very heavily into the church, so he was outright opposed to it. Neither of them understood how it could have happened. They did everything they could think of. They used every tactic in the book. They took me to a therapist (who told them that THEY had the problem). They threatened to kick me out twice. "What would the church think?" "How could you do this to us?" Finally they just stopped talking to me altogether. They wouldn't even call me up for dinner. I eventually broke under the pressure and told them it was all a phase and shoved myself back into the closet. I haven't breached the subject since and have lived two lives for over a decade. It still hurts to look my mom in the eyes and act like nothing's amiss between us. I think she suspects even now that I was only saying what I was saying to get them to at least ACT like they loved me again, but I'll never know because they will die never knowing who I truly am.
And none of my Real life friends know that I am furry they have made glear most of them dont like the fandom.
What are you drawing?
Drawing a dragon with a big dick.
Why?
Because somebody paid me too.
How much?
$80
Later on a few years ago my parents actually went to Anthrocon into the dealers room into artist alley hunting for me to tell me they was going to go get lunch, do I wanna come. That moment was a bit more embarrassing.
Last year i revealed my sexuality and they now accept, a bit, not 100% but we live without conflicts =)