"Acne Acceptance" BS
7 years ago
What the crap is going on with this movement that any body type or level of hygiene is as good as the next? You shouldn't feel like less of a person for having acne but that doesn't mean you should stop washing your face or using sun protection. You shouldn't hate yourself for being fat or hate others for being fat, but if you are then eat less and be more physically active!
What's gonna be the next "unreasonable beauty standard"? Brushing your teeth, combing your hair, wiping your ass!?
https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.th.....ivity-movement
If you have lowered your standards for what it means to be healthy then that's your choice, but don't come at me with this attitude that I have to agree with your feelings because you have this negative body image that you're too lazy to even TRY to fix.
What's gonna be the next "unreasonable beauty standard"? Brushing your teeth, combing your hair, wiping your ass!?
https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.th.....ivity-movement
If you have lowered your standards for what it means to be healthy then that's your choice, but don't come at me with this attitude that I have to agree with your feelings because you have this negative body image that you're too lazy to even TRY to fix.
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I fully agree on what your saying dude
Honestly, one should never doubt someone could take an otherwise fine and inoffensive idea (like not devaluing a person for body type or hygiene), and spin it into full-blown belief that it is ones right to be tolerated of your own disgusting behavior.
Like, feel bad about your body? Then work on it! Don't just end with telling people that you don't care, you do, that's why you feel so bad about it. Stop looking for validation from elsewhere!
Okay... I get it, some kids are horrible with the pimples. I went to school with a few who... I feel for them. A face that was nearly 100% red and looked painful constantly. But you never pointed it out. You never made fun of them for that. Acne is a pain. It hurts, and in my life, no one ever pointed it out on anyone else because they knew what it was like. The ONLY time anyone ever said anything about another persons Acne is when a classmate maybe was spending a little to much time poking at it in public and ended up bleeding or something else gross and where asked to go and excuse themselves. Nothing meant to embarrass them, and no one else paid attention because most people have had a horribly huge pimple and yeah, it looks bad and hurts.
And now... America. Fuck this. South park has an ENTIRE EPISODE over this kinda shit. James Cameron cannot keep bring the bar up from Challenger Deep.
Urggg this is so stupid. Why do people constantly have to get attention in such gross ways.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tVlkxrNlp10
This acceptance is out of control.
Having acne should be treated, not going out to show off.
It's good to see people who are still rational.
Here's the bottom line in three points:
1. Being cruel to someone for being different is never acceptable, even if that difference is something objectively harmful to one's self and can be managed or eliminated by the afflicted. But even still...
2. ...Some people are just gonna be jerks to you for a variety of personal reasons, so the onus is on you to figure out how to let it roll off your shoulders and have enough self confidence that you aren't emotionally crippled by other people's negative opinions of you. (This is just one reason why I support teaching social/emotional intelligence in public schools.) However, just because someone is mean to you over something doesn't always mean the appropriate response is to double down and dig in your heels, because...
3. ... Some qualities ARE objectively harmful and just plain bad and shouldn't be celebrated. True self confidence and self love (the psychologically healthy kind) means recognizing your own flaws and working to correct them as best as you can. It doesn't mean just blindly accepting how you are as if everything about you is unchangeable. Some things can and should be changed.
If someone has a medical condition that leaves them with horrific acne that current medicine cannot fix, then yes, I can understand a movement to promote tolerance of such outliers. But not everyday Joes who just need better hygiene.
But that's it: a good CHUNK. Not ALL. For some people, nothing works and acne keeps coming back (that's even mentioned in the article). I should know, I've been plagued by this for more than a decade. I'm fortunate not to have the most on my face so it can stay hidden, but it's a colossal pain.
So, what should I do about something that is highly frequent but refuses to go away for some people and other people point at when they see it? Keeping hearing "Ewww, you should fix that" or starting something to say "hey, acne happens and sometimes, you can't fix that, stop watching us like unwashed freaks, please". Of course, whiny entitled brats who don't take care of themselves when that's all needed to fix that are not included, that's their own problem.
Oh, BTW, "Brushing your teeth", if that refers to the classic "why are your teeth yellow and ugly, you don't brush them?", same thing here. Not everyone has white, well-aligned, well-sized teeth. Sometimes genetics fuck you up and nothing you can do can fix that.
But of course, the Guardian, "expert" as it often is put a click-bait title and people only read that and concluded "people with acne want to make acne cool, that's disgusting", when it's ready "hey, acne happens and under the tons of make-up, some famous people have that too, so please stop acting like it's an easy-to-treat thing only lazy slobs have that you should keep pointing at".
But I personally can't help but feel like the author is trying to pull some emotional strings talking about revolution for those seeking to be accepted yadayada... I understand that acne has been tough to you, and honestly promoting knowledge in regards to different conditions, how to treat them, how they affect you, why they happen and why not everyone can easily get rid of them is great! In regards to what you asked above, you gotta know that first impressions are skin deep.
I met a girl in middle school, bad skin and one lazy eye, yet she became one of my best friends and I had no trouble overlooking appearance cause that didn't matter anything to how she was like. That said, this admittedly leads to "You should try harder to make up with your personality as to over your looks" situation, which still makes it difficult in some cases (maybe in careers, but hey, you could be happy at least you know which ones are actually about hard work over looking pretty).
Here's the thing, as long as people have eyes, appearances will matter. Teaching about acne and their problems is good sentiment, and these communities will likely help many like themselves.
The author sadly is a bit patronizing about this for my taste.
And to think that was at least normal compared to today's crazies.