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I shall hence forth be known as Tobi!
11 years ago
TL;DR
I consider myself a male on the inside and finally have got the courage to admit it to myself. From now on, I would like to be known as Tobias (Tobi for short) and have male pronouns used. Thank you for the consideration.
Bit of a story of my fursona Piro, she was meant to represent everything I should be, everything I wanted to be. Popular, cute, skinny, stand out, be up to date with the lastest cool things to do.
As I grow up, and learn to deal with my insecurities, she has felt less and less like me. Yes, I always wanted to be the girl that everyone liked, who wore the skimpiest clothes and loved being sexual. Now, some of that is me, but a lot of it isnt. A lot of that is me trying to put on a show so people like me.
My current partner, Thorn, has shown me such support and unwavering love, that I have felt I can relax, that I dont have to put on an act for everyone. Now I'm not saying my ex partners didnt do that, they were all amazing people who help me learn more about myself. As I have grown, my last relationships have fallen dew to us growing, and I would change that for the world.
In the last 2 years, I have learn to find strength within myself, to stand through the hard times and not run at the first sign of trouble. I have learnt that love doesnt have to be conditional. With this sense of security within my relationship and myself, I have started exploring deeper within myself, trusting I will be safe to be vulnerable. I have come to a few realizations within myself.
One of the Big ones is I dont want to be female. I dont feel I should be "one of the girls". I love dressing like a guy, I love being crude, I want to be called "one of the guys". To me, that is what makes me happy. I love the rush of a good fight (though I only ever play fight) and I love to be a gentalmen. Currently, I'm still a bit confused about how I want my biology to be, but inside, I feel I should be male.
So along came Tobias.
He has rolled together with all the things I currently know about myself. He is a pet, he is a labrador, he loves to rough and tumble and he is a sappy little guy. Tobias is also the name I have choosen to use on a daily basis.
So if you can, please call me Tobi/Tobias and use male pronouns. Would mean the world to me, and if you forget, its alright, just please try to correct yourself. :)
I consider myself a male on the inside and finally have got the courage to admit it to myself. From now on, I would like to be known as Tobias (Tobi for short) and have male pronouns used. Thank you for the consideration.
Bit of a story of my fursona Piro, she was meant to represent everything I should be, everything I wanted to be. Popular, cute, skinny, stand out, be up to date with the lastest cool things to do.
As I grow up, and learn to deal with my insecurities, she has felt less and less like me. Yes, I always wanted to be the girl that everyone liked, who wore the skimpiest clothes and loved being sexual. Now, some of that is me, but a lot of it isnt. A lot of that is me trying to put on a show so people like me.
My current partner, Thorn, has shown me such support and unwavering love, that I have felt I can relax, that I dont have to put on an act for everyone. Now I'm not saying my ex partners didnt do that, they were all amazing people who help me learn more about myself. As I have grown, my last relationships have fallen dew to us growing, and I would change that for the world.
In the last 2 years, I have learn to find strength within myself, to stand through the hard times and not run at the first sign of trouble. I have learnt that love doesnt have to be conditional. With this sense of security within my relationship and myself, I have started exploring deeper within myself, trusting I will be safe to be vulnerable. I have come to a few realizations within myself.
One of the Big ones is I dont want to be female. I dont feel I should be "one of the girls". I love dressing like a guy, I love being crude, I want to be called "one of the guys". To me, that is what makes me happy. I love the rush of a good fight (though I only ever play fight) and I love to be a gentalmen. Currently, I'm still a bit confused about how I want my biology to be, but inside, I feel I should be male.
So along came Tobias.
He has rolled together with all the things I currently know about myself. He is a pet, he is a labrador, he loves to rough and tumble and he is a sappy little guy. Tobias is also the name I have choosen to use on a daily basis.
So if you can, please call me Tobi/Tobias and use male pronouns. Would mean the world to me, and if you forget, its alright, just please try to correct yourself. :)
Since coming out I have gotten nothing but support, I can tell you how happy I am. <3
You know I feel pretty much exactly the same, I actually though when I was younger I might be transgender (although I didn't know there was a term for it or anything back then).
I will try and remember to use Tobi, although I am sure I will slip up fairly often
Hope things go well, Tobi~
I may need reminding if we meet again but will happily use your new name and real gender.
To be honest oddly enough I have all ways seen you as one of the boys from the very 1st time I met you all those years ago, just going on how you act and portray you self.
On another note I know a few people who are gender fluid including me so you may have a bit of that happening too.