Wow...
11 years ago
So I say, so it shall be.....maybe...
So TWICE now in 24 hours I've had someone approach me about getting to know each other and being friends. On both occasions we really hit it off, and they seemed like people I'd like to have as friends, and one of them actually lived close by. That one deleted me off of Skype 5 hours later and blocked my phone, and the other basically said, "Oh wait, sorry nevermind!" and logged off.
Am I really that bad of a person?...I know I screw up, but honestly I can't tell what I did to provoke those reactions. I just don't understand it. I have a hard enough time keeping the friends that I have, most of which IS my own damn fault but this just... I dunno.
Sorry, just felt like I needed to rant.
Am I really that bad of a person?...I know I screw up, but honestly I can't tell what I did to provoke those reactions. I just don't understand it. I have a hard enough time keeping the friends that I have, most of which IS my own damn fault but this just... I dunno.
Sorry, just felt like I needed to rant.
All kidding aside, I've never met you in person, so I can't say anything one way or the other. If people cannot be bothered to tell you what it is they don't like about you, then they simply aren't (and never were) worthy of your time! I have found that it's far easier to be "brutally honest" with people. If I meet someone and discover that I don't want to be around them, I tell them so (as politely as possible). I expect others to grant me the same courtesy. The whole world isn't going to love me, nor are they going to love you or anyone else. When someone doesn't like associating with me, if they tell me why, then I both accept that and I respect that person for their honesty, even if I don't agree with whatever the reason(s).
P.S. I miss the big adorable lion
It's not you, it's them, hon. And while we can't all like the same things or get along, it'd be nice if they had at least told you what it was that troubled them. Either they were asses, or they were afraid you'd react badly.