Sorry to hear about the setback, but I have full confidence in your achieving bigger, better things. I've been there, still there in some ways, having to share living space with family (though it does make taking care of the nephew easier.) Make the best of it, and try not to lett it disrupt your forward momentum too much.

If you ever need a bun to talk to, you know where to find one (given it's FA, probably where to find several.)

thanks for the well wishes, and i don't intend to let it deter me, just have to expand my hunt a bit and posilbly call in some favors