Being ignored
11 years ago
Suck.....Really, there's no other way I can think to open that other than...It sucks.
I know I can be god awfully obnoxious by just being me and annoying as all fuck, but......I really don't think that warrants full on ignoring me. Sure, telling me off and saying 'I don't want to talk to you', that's 'fine', but I just...find it extremely cowardly when someone stops talking to someone. Blocking them without saying thing, that's a dick move, but at least you're making yourself known; Not even doing that, and basically not even giving someone the time of day is just...Rude at best, and pathetic at worst.
It's probably me and my wonky outlook on life, but....Up end and ignoring someone-- Someone you made every indication you were going to speak to again, had plans with, and were going to do stuff with again-- is pretty low, lower than cutting ties directly. I kinda feel it's like...Not having the guts to deal with the situation, walking away, and pretending it never happened... meanwhile, there's someone sitting around confused why their communications aren't being answered, and at worse, thinking they did something wrong, or something bad happened to said person, or who knows what, and having no way to confirm it one way or the other...A friend of mine, Drax, he's going through the same thing, and it's driving him nuts. Thing is, unlike most stuff, I can't really say much to the situation, since...There's little to be done short of stalking the person-- IE going through their friends and constantly poking them. Sometimes it's warranted, when they're in a dicy situation and shit could have happened, most the time it isn't, so....Iunno.
I kinda just wanna say, you guys? If you have someone you don't wanna talk to anymore, just tell them...It might hurt them, and if you're worried about it actually think on it a bit, but...Don't just leave them high and dry with no explanation. That's what a child does, not someone mature. Have the balls to at least say to their face you don't wanna talk to them...At least then you won't feel like you tucked tail and hid.
I know I can be god awfully obnoxious by just being me and annoying as all fuck, but......I really don't think that warrants full on ignoring me. Sure, telling me off and saying 'I don't want to talk to you', that's 'fine', but I just...find it extremely cowardly when someone stops talking to someone. Blocking them without saying thing, that's a dick move, but at least you're making yourself known; Not even doing that, and basically not even giving someone the time of day is just...Rude at best, and pathetic at worst.
It's probably me and my wonky outlook on life, but....Up end and ignoring someone-- Someone you made every indication you were going to speak to again, had plans with, and were going to do stuff with again-- is pretty low, lower than cutting ties directly. I kinda feel it's like...Not having the guts to deal with the situation, walking away, and pretending it never happened... meanwhile, there's someone sitting around confused why their communications aren't being answered, and at worse, thinking they did something wrong, or something bad happened to said person, or who knows what, and having no way to confirm it one way or the other...A friend of mine, Drax, he's going through the same thing, and it's driving him nuts. Thing is, unlike most stuff, I can't really say much to the situation, since...There's little to be done short of stalking the person-- IE going through their friends and constantly poking them. Sometimes it's warranted, when they're in a dicy situation and shit could have happened, most the time it isn't, so....Iunno.
I kinda just wanna say, you guys? If you have someone you don't wanna talk to anymore, just tell them...It might hurt them, and if you're worried about it actually think on it a bit, but...Don't just leave them high and dry with no explanation. That's what a child does, not someone mature. Have the balls to at least say to their face you don't wanna talk to them...At least then you won't feel like you tucked tail and hid.

gale7777
~gale7777
Sorry to hear it bud, i know what thats like to be ignored.

PieMan24601
~pieman24601
*Hugs tight*