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11 years ago
Been stressed recently because my little brother who lives with me owns me a lot of money and he keeps going in night clubs, he visits the pawn shop often and I suspect he also plays slot machines. This week-end, he had 2 friends visiting the city, one stayed here during 2 nights and was left unattended Monday morning. The other one, the one who stayed at the hotel, was a 22 years old tattooed girl. Stuff is missing in my bedroom. I texted him that if he doesn't find them during the following week, I'm kicking him out. I was very angry back then and wrote the message in capitals and used a swear word. He said he went to his girlfriend's place. I have yet to get any news from him. I've been staying here for days and I'm calling off for this week-end. I need to talk to him to set my mind at ease. I surely can't do a good job at work if my mind is troubled.
Yeah, I'm getting paranoiac again. I feel used by my family. Now, whenever I answer the phone I answer "How much?" or "What's not working with your computer this time?" It's this bad.
We have been raised with no real needs to discuss about serious topics or be real with our feelings in the family. I wish my brothers and my sister would try to save some money just like me. They also don't seem to share my sense of altruism like my worries for future generations for example.
This time again, I've got an urge to move in another province and stay away from my family. That should be for my mental health and their benefit as well. Some day, they will understand... hopefully.
So, yeah, I might not be too... ugh, beh, that probably won't change much about my chatting mood these days after all. Sorry to bother you all with this. I just wanted to explain a bit why I'm... err... me.
Yeah, I'm getting paranoiac again. I feel used by my family. Now, whenever I answer the phone I answer "How much?" or "What's not working with your computer this time?" It's this bad.
We have been raised with no real needs to discuss about serious topics or be real with our feelings in the family. I wish my brothers and my sister would try to save some money just like me. They also don't seem to share my sense of altruism like my worries for future generations for example.
This time again, I've got an urge to move in another province and stay away from my family. That should be for my mental health and their benefit as well. Some day, they will understand... hopefully.
So, yeah, I might not be too... ugh, beh, that probably won't change much about my chatting mood these days after all. Sorry to bother you all with this. I just wanted to explain a bit why I'm... err... me.
The brother kept complaining about everything as it was his home, even though he didn't pay for anything.
The girl left a total mess in her room (it even had to be repainted) and also set the kitchen on fire once. She promised to make amendments in regards to paying for the damages, removing junk from deconstructing stuff in her room, and painting the kitchen anew. None of that happened.
Family can be just a word with pretty much no positive doing coming with it.
I'd say getting out might be a good thing, or at least get further away, etc. Depends on who you'd worry about leaving behind. I'd suggest coming out west. ^.=.^ At least there's work here.
I'm of the opinion that if abusive and abrasive family can't get over the fact that you can't stand them for obvious reasons, then too bad for them. They brought it on themselves.