Sigh
11 years ago
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Got up at 4:30 AM to go to work, shift ends at 3:30 PM. My mom and I drive together, I drove today. They needed a couple people to work over tonight, but I hate work, and it makes me so sore.. My mom comes up and asks if I want to stay over, so I said no. She instantly got pissy.
Now all I'm hearing is how apparently I don't pay bills, do anything for her, and how I need to move the fuck out. I pay 2 bills, do EVERYTHING for her including loan her money I will never see again, and she knows if I could move out I would. I hate being fucking guilt tripped becuase I didn't do what she wanted.
She says we're not riding together anymore, to drive myself so I can "be lazy and not drag her with me".
Got up at 4:30 AM to go to work, shift ends at 3:30 PM. My mom and I drive together, I drove today. They needed a couple people to work over tonight, but I hate work, and it makes me so sore.. My mom comes up and asks if I want to stay over, so I said no. She instantly got pissy.
Now all I'm hearing is how apparently I don't pay bills, do anything for her, and how I need to move the fuck out. I pay 2 bills, do EVERYTHING for her including loan her money I will never see again, and she knows if I could move out I would. I hate being fucking guilt tripped becuase I didn't do what she wanted.
She says we're not riding together anymore, to drive myself so I can "be lazy and not drag her with me".

ChaosPatrick
~chaospatrick
I know how you feel, my dad used to guilt trip me all the time. You should probably just try to talk it out calmly when you both have calmed down. You can each say your side, and come to an agreement, or agree to disagree. I just don't want to see you end up not having a relationship with your mom, for she's the only one you have. Just try to compromise. I'm sure things'll work out~

coltores
~coltores
-hugs-

Darmalus
~darmalus
Sadly, there's not much you can do about it except grit your teeth and bear it until you can leave them behind. You could being the only working person in the house and it would still always be your fault in their heads.

Madness_Wraith
~madnesswraith
Sorry to hear, and hopefully things calm a bit after potential bit of rest, since 11+ hours on the job wears almost everyone out and can get people edgy.

ShackledAngel
~shackledangel
I dealt with the same thing when I lived with my mom. All I can say is I'm sorry.. some people are just like that.

Acharky
~acharky
Wish I could take you away from that hon