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The myth
11 years ago
To some of the guy's here.
Of all the art sites I'm a part of this is he worst for this. So let's talk of myth's, more so the one that having a girlfriend will magicly make your life 110% better.
I been single for the last 10 years, I'm not bothered by this. It's a choice to make yourself unhappy about it, to sit and dwell on it. Their is no perfect girl out there, not for me, not for you. What I mean by that is most seem to focus on the idea of a girl much rather then any real one, not all girls are sweet meek and innocent, they are people, they get mad, have things to deal with, have their own thoughts and idea's, goals, like's, dislikes, things they find sexy or not and so on. They are not some "life fix all" that'll swoop from heaven and make your life prefect. In a nutshell girls are not like anime. Like anyone, some are nice some are not.
I'm not posting this to make anyone feel bad, but rather get those people out of this rut they are in, as if your life ONLY starts when you get a girlfriend. Being in a relationship is work, sometimes you'll have to do something you'll hate, sacrafice something you want, easy to SAY you will but could you? I'd like to get me a girlfriend one day, but for now i like the freedom I have of a single man.
Bottom line, girls are people, not some divine innocent angel from above that'll take care of you, clean the house all wile 3/4 naked and want sex every single hour of the day. Yes some do date asshole's, but not all of them. A girl I know has a BF that became one my best friends. To say that any guy who isn't you dating someone is an asshole is a pretty narrow minded thing to think.
You don't need a relationship to be a complete person, so stop sitting in your room making yourself miserable all day everyday, you were given the gift of life, don't waste it. Get out there and enjoy it.
Of all the art sites I'm a part of this is he worst for this. So let's talk of myth's, more so the one that having a girlfriend will magicly make your life 110% better.
I been single for the last 10 years, I'm not bothered by this. It's a choice to make yourself unhappy about it, to sit and dwell on it. Their is no perfect girl out there, not for me, not for you. What I mean by that is most seem to focus on the idea of a girl much rather then any real one, not all girls are sweet meek and innocent, they are people, they get mad, have things to deal with, have their own thoughts and idea's, goals, like's, dislikes, things they find sexy or not and so on. They are not some "life fix all" that'll swoop from heaven and make your life prefect. In a nutshell girls are not like anime. Like anyone, some are nice some are not.
I'm not posting this to make anyone feel bad, but rather get those people out of this rut they are in, as if your life ONLY starts when you get a girlfriend. Being in a relationship is work, sometimes you'll have to do something you'll hate, sacrafice something you want, easy to SAY you will but could you? I'd like to get me a girlfriend one day, but for now i like the freedom I have of a single man.
Bottom line, girls are people, not some divine innocent angel from above that'll take care of you, clean the house all wile 3/4 naked and want sex every single hour of the day. Yes some do date asshole's, but not all of them. A girl I know has a BF that became one my best friends. To say that any guy who isn't you dating someone is an asshole is a pretty narrow minded thing to think.
You don't need a relationship to be a complete person, so stop sitting in your room making yourself miserable all day everyday, you were given the gift of life, don't waste it. Get out there and enjoy it.
