QUESTION...... rant sorry read if you want ...
11 years ago
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I own my house right. and me my mate and my cousin lived here, my cousin has his friend come here for a few months because has no place to stay and pays me rent "no problem" after 3 months he moves out
a month goes by he wants to crash here for a few days because his girl is haveing a baby and she is staying at her friends house to recover, so i allow my cousins friend to crash here. on the last day he steals food from me because hes broke. "he has my number to contact me and my facebook but instead of getting ahold of me just takes it.
I have a security system with cameras and call him out on it because all the food containers was found that night in the room. when i confront him about it he lies to me over the phone and says he only took 1 item when it was 4 different things. So i tell my cousin he is no longer welcome in my house.
At this point my cousin flips out on me calling me "petty" because i should let a hungry person that i let stay at my house out of niceness to just take my food. and he threatens to move out which he has done like 4 times befor and i said next time he does this hes getting a 30 notice so i give him one and he gets even more crazy and flipping out on me cause "im kicking family out" when i had warned him in the past that if he threatens to move out again i will give him a notice.
SO
NO to me this is theft you had my number and other ways to get ahold of me and you just take it. thats wrong you dont take what i paid money for without asking. SO my cousin moves out today "this happened last night" and continues to call me petty cause i should let people take what ever they want from me with out asking cause there hungry.
sure come to my house and steal food. when i give u a bed to crash on and take advantage of me.
So was calling this person out the right thing to do? and kicking my cousin out because i had warned him about this befor... its just said that it didnt even involve my cousin i just told him his friend wasnt aloud in my house no more and he does all this. :/
I own my house right. and me my mate and my cousin lived here, my cousin has his friend come here for a few months because has no place to stay and pays me rent "no problem" after 3 months he moves out
a month goes by he wants to crash here for a few days because his girl is haveing a baby and she is staying at her friends house to recover, so i allow my cousins friend to crash here. on the last day he steals food from me because hes broke. "he has my number to contact me and my facebook but instead of getting ahold of me just takes it.
I have a security system with cameras and call him out on it because all the food containers was found that night in the room. when i confront him about it he lies to me over the phone and says he only took 1 item when it was 4 different things. So i tell my cousin he is no longer welcome in my house.
At this point my cousin flips out on me calling me "petty" because i should let a hungry person that i let stay at my house out of niceness to just take my food. and he threatens to move out which he has done like 4 times befor and i said next time he does this hes getting a 30 notice so i give him one and he gets even more crazy and flipping out on me cause "im kicking family out" when i had warned him in the past that if he threatens to move out again i will give him a notice.
SO
NO to me this is theft you had my number and other ways to get ahold of me and you just take it. thats wrong you dont take what i paid money for without asking. SO my cousin moves out today "this happened last night" and continues to call me petty cause i should let people take what ever they want from me with out asking cause there hungry.
sure come to my house and steal food. when i give u a bed to crash on and take advantage of me.
So was calling this person out the right thing to do? and kicking my cousin out because i had warned him about this befor... its just said that it didnt even involve my cousin i just told him his friend wasnt aloud in my house no more and he does all this. :/
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Also sounds like your cousin needs to mature a bit. Threatening to move out over a friend stealing then lying, really?