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I've Been Asked About My Relationships A Lot...
11 years ago
So I'm writing this to answer all of them for everyone.
I identify as a bisexual who's functionally straight but willingly asexual. In other words, my body may be attracted to both genders, but I'll only consummate under a God-sanctioned marriage, if I ever let myself get into a relationship. To cut it short, by utility, would be to say that I'm straight with bisexual tendencies?
I don't know. Sexuality isn't important to me unless it's holy.
So I've been asked several questions recently:
1: How many relationships have you been in?
I've been in two "real" relationships, two "attempted" relationships. I've been cheated on once, and that relationship, and one of the attempted ones, it was shown rather bluntly how little I mattered in it all. Basically, in both instances, I was rejected and told I'm worthless.
2: You're single now?
I've been "single" since March of last year. I broke up with her because I thought there was no way I could maintain both college and a long-distance relationship again. I didn't want to take the chance that I would end up harming her somehow in the future because of my own weaknesses.
3: Will you date guys?
Homosocially and homosocially only. If I love someone, I love their soul not their bodies. I won't risk my faith and my moral duties to chase temporary pleasures.
4: What was your longest relationship?
The one that ended in March last year. Went three years, one of those was during my first year of college in high school.
5: What do you look for in people?
Honesty. Care. Love. Faith. Loyalty. A certain degree of "realness."
6: Is there anybody you want at the moment?
Not really, because there are a lot of parameters of who I'm looking for. Not to mention that I'm not really looking for anyone at the moment either.
7: Would you chance getting into a relationship again?
I won't initiate anything. I would contemplate getting into a relationship again.
So there's seven questions and answers. Y'all're curious about it.
I identify as a bisexual who's functionally straight but willingly asexual. In other words, my body may be attracted to both genders, but I'll only consummate under a God-sanctioned marriage, if I ever let myself get into a relationship. To cut it short, by utility, would be to say that I'm straight with bisexual tendencies?
I don't know. Sexuality isn't important to me unless it's holy.
So I've been asked several questions recently:
1: How many relationships have you been in?
I've been in two "real" relationships, two "attempted" relationships. I've been cheated on once, and that relationship, and one of the attempted ones, it was shown rather bluntly how little I mattered in it all. Basically, in both instances, I was rejected and told I'm worthless.
2: You're single now?
I've been "single" since March of last year. I broke up with her because I thought there was no way I could maintain both college and a long-distance relationship again. I didn't want to take the chance that I would end up harming her somehow in the future because of my own weaknesses.
3: Will you date guys?
Homosocially and homosocially only. If I love someone, I love their soul not their bodies. I won't risk my faith and my moral duties to chase temporary pleasures.
4: What was your longest relationship?
The one that ended in March last year. Went three years, one of those was during my first year of college in high school.
5: What do you look for in people?
Honesty. Care. Love. Faith. Loyalty. A certain degree of "realness."
6: Is there anybody you want at the moment?
Not really, because there are a lot of parameters of who I'm looking for. Not to mention that I'm not really looking for anyone at the moment either.
7: Would you chance getting into a relationship again?
I won't initiate anything. I would contemplate getting into a relationship again.
So there's seven questions and answers. Y'all're curious about it.
ISFoxMkloud
~isfoxmkloud
I would categorize myself as one with bisexual tendency. In terms of sexually attracted to, I am more strongly attracted to the females than males in many regards. So, I guess I fall into the straight with bi tendency. However, over the years, I have become increasingly asexual. Or may be I was born an asexual, because I remember how people around me 'worried' that I wasn't interested in anyone really. That goes for the friends too. I didn't care much for it. Only recently did I start care about friends. I really wasn't a person who was interested in any kind of relationship. Now, I've done my fair share of immoral things. But never really was interested in those to begin with. They were all learned behaviors from some sources. I am not claiming to be innocent, because I chose to commit such acts on my parts. I just simply did not care for it. Most of it was to fulfill my curiosity. I had a date when I was little, she and I often talked of marriage. Yes, that was stupid little kiddish loves, but even then, I wasn't really into it. But I realized how serious the other side was. As the years passed by. Who knows, I was born an asexual but learned bisexual tendency and learned to be a strong straight. Or perhaps, I am just a sociopath or psychopath that don't really care about people in reality and impressively irresponsible enough so that I let those things happen. Anyways, enough about me. I am sorry.
ISFoxMkloud
~isfoxmkloud
Also, yes those values are what I look for. At least, so I think.
