Valentine's Meme
17 years ago
1. Are you single or taken?
Still single.
2. Chocolate or flowers?
That would depend on various factors, the most important being what my significant other would want, if I ever have a significant other.
3. Will you do anything special for Valentines Day?
Don’t think so.
4.Do you like anyone?
Well, I’ve had crushes before, but I know enough now that I should NOT pursue a relationship unless I am in love with her. A crush is one thing, but it does not justify a relationship. I want to be in a relationship because I love the person and NOT because I want to be in a relationship for the sake of having one.
So, while I may like someone, I must not pursue them or anyone else until I feel my feelings are justified. Currently, they are not.
5. Were you dating anyone last Valentines?
Nope.
6. What would be your dream Valentines date?
Just spending time with her, talking and the like. I know that’s what people usually do, but I would be glad to do it. It would mean I finally have someone to be with.
7. Do you make a big deal about Valentines?
Not really.
8. Have you ever had a secret admirer?
I think that may be the case now. There’s a lady at church who may like me, but I don’t think I am the one for her. I’m 20 and she’s 57, but I know love can overcome that. I’m not in love with her, though. I just don’t think I would be good for her. Seriously. I honestly don’t believe I can be what she needs me to be. I want her to find someone who can be there for her and be with her. She needs companionship, and unfortunately, I wouldn‘t be able to physically be there as much as she needs. I do believe relationships can work when people are apart, but I think she would be better off with someone who could devote their time to her and physically be with her. I may not love her, but I don’t want her to be alone, either. I want her to find someone, and would be willing to help find someone for her. I know I won’t be good for her, but someone will, right?
9. Would you ever write someone a love letter?
If I was in love, I probably would.
10. Do you believe in Cupid?
As a real being? No. As a concept, I acknowledge him.
11. Do your parents give you presents on Valentines?
Nope.
12. Do you still send out Valentines cards?
Would would I send them to? If I had someone, I’d probably send them something. I’d also probably send some as a joke too. Not a mean joke, but a “I thought you might like this” joke.
13. Do you like candy hearts?
Not really, but I think there was a variation I liked.
15. Is Valentines depressing?
Only if I let it be.
16. How do you feel about PDA?
I think showing your love for one another is good. Try to limit it in public, because sometimes it causes problems. I’m not against showing love, but it’s a bit rude to block the way of others in a narrow passageway.
17. How is your love life?
I am alone. That said, I know not to rush into things. That’s why I’ve been trying to think things through. I did tell someone I had a crush on them, but I'm not pursuing them unless I love them. As of now, and possibly forever, I don't.
18. Have you ever been dumped on Valentines?
- Nope
19. How many roses would you want?
Don’t need roses.
20. Will you have a boyfriend/girlfriend next Valentines?
I hope so, but I’m not optimistic about it.
Still single.
2. Chocolate or flowers?
That would depend on various factors, the most important being what my significant other would want, if I ever have a significant other.
3. Will you do anything special for Valentines Day?
Don’t think so.
4.Do you like anyone?
Well, I’ve had crushes before, but I know enough now that I should NOT pursue a relationship unless I am in love with her. A crush is one thing, but it does not justify a relationship. I want to be in a relationship because I love the person and NOT because I want to be in a relationship for the sake of having one.
So, while I may like someone, I must not pursue them or anyone else until I feel my feelings are justified. Currently, they are not.
5. Were you dating anyone last Valentines?
Nope.
6. What would be your dream Valentines date?
Just spending time with her, talking and the like. I know that’s what people usually do, but I would be glad to do it. It would mean I finally have someone to be with.
7. Do you make a big deal about Valentines?
Not really.
8. Have you ever had a secret admirer?
I think that may be the case now. There’s a lady at church who may like me, but I don’t think I am the one for her. I’m 20 and she’s 57, but I know love can overcome that. I’m not in love with her, though. I just don’t think I would be good for her. Seriously. I honestly don’t believe I can be what she needs me to be. I want her to find someone who can be there for her and be with her. She needs companionship, and unfortunately, I wouldn‘t be able to physically be there as much as she needs. I do believe relationships can work when people are apart, but I think she would be better off with someone who could devote their time to her and physically be with her. I may not love her, but I don’t want her to be alone, either. I want her to find someone, and would be willing to help find someone for her. I know I won’t be good for her, but someone will, right?
9. Would you ever write someone a love letter?
If I was in love, I probably would.
10. Do you believe in Cupid?
As a real being? No. As a concept, I acknowledge him.
11. Do your parents give you presents on Valentines?
Nope.
12. Do you still send out Valentines cards?
Would would I send them to? If I had someone, I’d probably send them something. I’d also probably send some as a joke too. Not a mean joke, but a “I thought you might like this” joke.
13. Do you like candy hearts?
Not really, but I think there was a variation I liked.
15. Is Valentines depressing?
Only if I let it be.
16. How do you feel about PDA?
I think showing your love for one another is good. Try to limit it in public, because sometimes it causes problems. I’m not against showing love, but it’s a bit rude to block the way of others in a narrow passageway.
17. How is your love life?
I am alone. That said, I know not to rush into things. That’s why I’ve been trying to think things through. I did tell someone I had a crush on them, but I'm not pursuing them unless I love them. As of now, and possibly forever, I don't.
18. Have you ever been dumped on Valentines?
- Nope
19. How many roses would you want?
Don’t need roses.
20. Will you have a boyfriend/girlfriend next Valentines?
I hope so, but I’m not optimistic about it.
Raoy
~raoy
I believe crushes may form into love after time spent and tender moments shared.
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