*gives you a big hug*

Ehh.. friends come and go. It's all apart of life.

awww puppy.. *hugs tight*

*gives warm sheepy hugs*
I know I'm not a comissioner or anything close but I always give out hugs where hugs are due, and you need some major ones right now.

I know exactly how you feel, it's why I've kept my problems that are really big to one or two people I really trust, mostly just the one because I've had a lot of issues with people who do this. I had someone randomly cut me off for no fucking reason at all and take several friends of mine with them while spreading lies and rumors about me to the tumblr base I was rp'ing at and so I left.

The trash took itself out y'know hah.
People who leave you like that, honestly were looking for an excuse, and I'm sorry you're going through that.

I don't know you personally, but I'm sorry you're having a rough time. Hopefully the venting helped, if not I offer a ringtail hug and a shiny D: *leaves a shiny and hug*

Stop trying so hard. Be yourself, that all you can be man. The people that really matter will always stay. The people that leave aren't worth worrying about.

Big difference between friends online and real friends (even if you did meet then online).

I know we don't chat much, but I do read your journals and wish you well bud.

I know exactly how you feel...

I dislike when people change how they act/treat someone when they learn said someone has health problems. I don't have any but I've seen it happen, and for the most part don't get how people manage to do it and feel okay with it. Yes, some problems are mentally difficult for people to take, understand, support, and it can hurt...but too many are like fairweather fans in sports. Want to know you when you're doing okay but don't give a shit when you need a support the most.

Venting is fine, I hope it helped. I'd say to set pretty low expectations for people when you first get to know the, so if they brush you aside unexpectedly, at least it's not so bad. The ones who are worth it tend to stick around.

Friends come and friends go, but cheesecake is forever.

I kind of know the feeling, more than once I've been in groups of friends that after a while just seem to lose interest and turn away, I have just a select few that for some reason have stuck by me no matter what... sometimes I wonder why XD I'm not all that great, I'm average in almost every sense of the word apart from my height X3

Friendships are all hit and miss, you take some of the good for some of the bad, and sometimes the bad will outweigh the good, but it's always temporary, you'll always be able to find that spark again, be able to enjoy the friends you've got. And enjoy them while you've got them, anything can happen from a simple argument, to someone having to move away, so my advice? Cherish every moment, even as you feel things starting to drift, don't cling desperately, enjoy the time you have, and should things eventually come to a stop, you'll know that they were all good times.

I came to a conclusion fairly recently that's completely changed my outlook, I'm only 24, but in the long run, that could be as much as a third of my life gone already, so I promised myself that I wouldn't dwell on failures or forgotten friendships, it may sound cold, but you have to keep looking forward, never stop trying, because the moment you do you've lost.

And hey, if ever you just wanna chat, hit me up, I'll talk your ear off for a while X3

I know how you feel.

I've been feeling so guilty and horrible about saying I would commission you earlier this year only to have my finances bottom out, that's why I haven't been around much, but that's the only reason. I've been trying to think of a way to apologize.

Believe me, I know about being alone and having people you once loved and swore you'd stand beside turn on you or leave...after the divorce back in '06, IRL, I have maybe one or two friends, and they live in another city 8 hours away now.

I don't know you well, but what I've seen and the loyalty and love I've seen from your friends here and in your streams make me think that you must be a decent guy. I'm sorry your life keeps getting hit like this.

i'm sorry you're feeling so down DeD, and sorry that i haven't really been around either; life's just been really hectic for me lately. losing friends sucks, i know. i never have more than a handful, myself.

I'm still here. Seems like you and these people need to talk to one another on your own times to resolve anything that's come up. I don't like trying to push anything in any direction because every once in a while I seem to have it all still popping out once in a while. It's rather unfortunate and it's something I can't entirely help. Once in a while though everyone needs a kick in the right direction.

I still say it, I'm still here, if you ever need anything I wont look down on being contacted in skype. If I don't want to be bothered I'd not use it at that time or have it on DND and even then if it's important I'll stop what I'm doing to listen. Might take me a while to respond afterwards, but I'll always do my best to read up.

I may not be in your streams, but I'm here always, bro

We're in it, to win it

I know the feeling :(

You know, you can vent and everything... just so long as you realise that no matter how horrible you may think it is, you still HAVE friends.

So no, it's not best to die alone, no it's not a huge tragedy.

You have friends who stick by you, why have anything else? People will come and go, and the ones that stay are the ones that matter, so perk up for them and especially for yourself. Get that notion to click in your mind and you'll feel much much better. A few friends that matter is a far better choice than lots of friends who kind of don't care and are exactly that because 'hey you draw', which has been known to burn a few of my own friends out to the point of wishing people would leave them alone. As long as the ones who leave are not directly malicious to you, why worry? Let them move on and be happy elsewhere, because you should be happy with the people who want to return said happiness with you.

chin up, k? ^^

*hugs* Hon, I would live right next door and visit every day if I could, you need to know that..

That's kind of why I have a hard time calling people friends, I mostly just consider people to be acquaintances. That way when they disappear it doesn't hurt quite as much.

I hope you get to feel better.

I'm still here for ya hun and always will be I may be a bit quiet and shy but I'm always around for a chat on FA or Skype.

Can't do much because I'm a bit far away. Still, I hope things get better for you puppy. I'm up for chatting any time.

Seems like we pretty much all know the feeling lol.

At least there are a couple rare ones that apologize ... bless them.

I know that feeling. People just... Fade away sometimes. Nothing to help it, and I know every time I've ever tried to bridge the gap I've failed miserably. Look at my birthday. No one gave a flying bunny. :/

Mini-rant aside, I don't know what your circumstances are regarding the friends you're having trouble with, but I do know that you are one of the most thoughtful, fun loving, accepting people I know, and if some one's fading on you, they'll soon turn around and wonder where you went.

I know I'm not on Skype super often, but when I am, I'm always up for a chat -- and if you want to voice chat, I'll try to kidnap my husband's headset so I can.

Loves you Puppy. <3

Well do not consider it that way, instead think more than these people may not have really come to see who you were. They failed to be decent friends to you and thus, they've flopped. There are many more who will be your friend =), if you'd like, I am available to speak to on Skype.

Though that much depends entirely on you.~

Sadly, friends just tend to drift away over time unless you cling to them like saran wrap. A few weeks ago I was visited by my best friend and we realized we hadn't seen eachother since last Halloween. Online chats have been my saving grace. Even online friends tend to drift away, though, so I've been kinda clingy.

*hugs* Just cause I'm not around doesn't mean I'm not think bout ya. It's more because I'm trying to deal with my own issues and getting sicker. Loves Puppy <3

Y'know, stop trying to be the guy people want to support, and just be the guy. You can't expect reciprocation for value, you'll just be used. Just do what you want/need to do and care for the people you actually care for, and the bullshit will sort itself out real fast.

I can sympathize. I've had lots of people that used to always comment but now, I couldn't pay people to comment.

It's almost like a lot of people gave up on me and moved on.

Awww that is no good, pup. :c
*hugs*

Friends come and go just like loves come and go - you find new ones and move on.

Friends you have to buy with art aren't friends.

*hugs*

Well I'm also looking for friends and after seeing you have been through the same stuff as me, I can only say that I want to be your friend. I'm kinda very shy when it comes to new contacts on skype but I would definitely love to have a friend which to share good and bad moments - cause life isn't a sea of roses - if you don't mind and feel like making one last attempt, please add me I would love to receive a new friend: victorneko is my skype username, (Mia Shirahime de Megurine). I hope we get to chat at least a little nyan!.