The best thing to do, and I know it's awful, is to prepare for the worst. Go ahead and think about it. Think about what you're going to do and how it's going to affect you. It's best to cry while you do it. If the news is good, then great, you still have time left with her. If it isn't, then at least you're prepared for it. If the news is bad, then the best thing to do is to just take it one day at a time and continue moving. Having something to take your mind off it is great, such as video games, books, music, movies, or hard drugs. Humor also helps.

I'm here if ya need me

praying for you and her

I'm sorry.