*sighs* Well....let me tell you my story....I had met someone at Chili's where I work. He came up to me and gave me his number. and of course I responded. that was the last sunday in October and we had been seeing each other ever since. I liked him....and of course we had certain intimate moments, not penetration mind you. Big mistake on my part because as a wolf fursona, any intimacy means I get attached quickly and easily. And technically we weren't together....he was deciding whether he wanted to be with me or not. A complicated relationship if you will. Well for the time being I was happy. I loved hanging with him, we had so much in common, and having a little fun was a plus, no one had ever gotten me outta my shell so fast. Things were going fine until Friday night. I went 8 hours without hearing anything from him. very unusual. same the next night. Today was better, random texts and chats. until tonight, when I found out he was hanging out with a girl....out of randomness I just asked "she's not a threat is she"? next text I get is "I think we should just be friends". I immediately go into panic mode and call him. I then find out that he met someone Friday night. the night I didn't hear from him. and he said he didn't feel anything for me. I'm so upset right now. I feel so used. And the one thing I'm gonna miss..is all the kisses and cuddles..and the way he made me feel. He made me, a plus sized overweight woman, feel sexy when I used to be ashamed of myself. So this hurts me terribly. And I'm not even sure I can get involved with anyone again.