mixed new year - UPDATED with a quite important note
11 years ago
Hello everyone *cuddles*,
I hope everyone had a good one, sorry I haven't been around much the whole Leelah Alcorn, really hit me hard, the story was so sad and so familiar, especially to my own, thankfully I'm still here to tell the tale, far too many are not.
Now for the serious and bad news
The way society treats Trans, Intersex (like myself) and Non binary people is nothing more than evil, I think, if anything, Leelah's story has shed light on this for those outside our communities to the plight we face. As expected the usual TERFs or Trans Exclusionary Radical "Feminists" kicked off in the usual left leaning press, taring us all, again, with the brush of mental illness and mocking yet another dead woman, as sadly expected.
These people are awful, they bully people, often to death, run them out of town or "Doxx" them so they can't get jobs, but I didn't think they would stoop so low to publicly mock the death of anyone but *sigh*. I'm often bothered these people in my line of work in advocacy for LGBTI+ issues but, well I unlike me, many are not gifted with such a thick skin.
My heath isn't that good, perhaps cos of the hours and stress but I'll get over it, perhaps I need to sleep more.
I work for the Lib Dems, but I'm thinking of joining my other friends in the Conservatives, depending upon the outcome of the next few months.
Just throwing this out here since some of the little community don't get it
A trans woman or man is not a sissy, not a transvestite, not a gay man or lesbian woman. If you fancy a Trans Woman and you're a man it means you're straight, if you're gay and like a trans woman as a man, well, don't, thats just deluded. Nothing wrong with loving a trans woman as a woman cos thats what she is, a woman.
Now for the good news
I have a darling daughter, someone who makes me feel complete, I can't wait till we move in together.
I love her so very much, she makes my heart flutter, its such a natural connection, its like she's my own blood.
She makes me want to nurse her and she's allowed me to rediscover my own little side, something that I've been so embarrassed about for years, I forget how depressed I get when I try to ignore it, I presume I'm not the only one.
Got to get the house sorted for my baby to live here, I've wanted a family for so long, not being able to have children biologically, something intensified by my mothers passing, so I'm ecstatic.
Thank you
Shyanne you make my life so much better, you and Wendy mean the world to me, your my true family, along with my sisters and brothers here and my friends, I love you all so much!
I really need to rest, I've been needing too for along time now but I don't wanna go to bed *pout* been finally turning in to sleep at 5 am and getting up every hour on the hour before calling it a day at 10/12, perhaps I need a mummy too *giggles*. I really don't do bedtimes ........
I hope everyone had a good one, sorry I haven't been around much the whole Leelah Alcorn, really hit me hard, the story was so sad and so familiar, especially to my own, thankfully I'm still here to tell the tale, far too many are not.
Now for the serious and bad news
The way society treats Trans, Intersex (like myself) and Non binary people is nothing more than evil, I think, if anything, Leelah's story has shed light on this for those outside our communities to the plight we face. As expected the usual TERFs or Trans Exclusionary Radical "Feminists" kicked off in the usual left leaning press, taring us all, again, with the brush of mental illness and mocking yet another dead woman, as sadly expected.
These people are awful, they bully people, often to death, run them out of town or "Doxx" them so they can't get jobs, but I didn't think they would stoop so low to publicly mock the death of anyone but *sigh*. I'm often bothered these people in my line of work in advocacy for LGBTI+ issues but, well I unlike me, many are not gifted with such a thick skin.
My heath isn't that good, perhaps cos of the hours and stress but I'll get over it, perhaps I need to sleep more.
I work for the Lib Dems, but I'm thinking of joining my other friends in the Conservatives, depending upon the outcome of the next few months.
Just throwing this out here since some of the little community don't get it
A trans woman or man is not a sissy, not a transvestite, not a gay man or lesbian woman. If you fancy a Trans Woman and you're a man it means you're straight, if you're gay and like a trans woman as a man, well, don't, thats just deluded. Nothing wrong with loving a trans woman as a woman cos thats what she is, a woman.
Now for the good news
I have a darling daughter, someone who makes me feel complete, I can't wait till we move in together.
I love her so very much, she makes my heart flutter, its such a natural connection, its like she's my own blood.
She makes me want to nurse her and she's allowed me to rediscover my own little side, something that I've been so embarrassed about for years, I forget how depressed I get when I try to ignore it, I presume I'm not the only one.
Got to get the house sorted for my baby to live here, I've wanted a family for so long, not being able to have children biologically, something intensified by my mothers passing, so I'm ecstatic.
Thank you

I really need to rest, I've been needing too for along time now but I don't wanna go to bed *pout* been finally turning in to sleep at 5 am and getting up every hour on the hour before calling it a day at 10/12, perhaps I need a mummy too *giggles*. I really don't do bedtimes ........
without worrying about being treated badly.
I sometimes feel like my grown up version of my sona in being agender,
so I mildly know some what is felt by others.
Just so hard to explain.
I remember when I let my cub side out, felt like it lifted a weight off my shoulders,
and made me happier. :D
Also hope you and Shyanne get to be together soon.
Gets some good rest *huggles* :3
Nothing wrong with agender sweetpie *hugs*
I need to to let mine out more, after the reaction to Sophie (that turns out to be shock more than anything else), I've been oppressing it, making me rather depressed, when I like my little side out I feel the same :D only thing I'm worried about is if I over indulge..,..
I can't wait toooooooo, I dream about her every night and how Wendy and I are going to look after her and take her on trips and stuffs
And I'll try but I got this poopy OU assignment *cries* tooo doos
*cuddles you so tight* I wish I was cuddling you lots too in the Fur, I love you soo much and I don't get to tell you (or any of my fur family) that enough *gives your a peck on the cheek and one for your love*, I hope my best wishes and love helps. *hugs*