don't care that I don't rly use this site gonna say a thing
10 years ago
Both my own and my fiancee's mothers have Tumblrs and neither of us have come out to our families so we don't talk about it much over there but I kinda just ended a friendship indirectly because of it so I'm going to say it here:
I'm bi.
And to the person who I just ended the friendship with: the thing you're bitching about? yeah if that kind of thing happened in cartoons when we were kids it would not have taken me until I was 23 to admit to myself that I am in fact bisexual don't you fucking DARE act like it's nothing but "stupid shipping bullshit". Especially since a massive number of people who ship said ship are not only bi or lesbian or pan or poly but also didn't ship it beyond a joke until season 3. And don't you fucking dare act like "hate" towards heterosexual cisgender individuals is anywhere near on par with LGBT people getting literally murdered and literally put on the street as teens by extremely bigoted family just because you're pissed a series ended with a canon bisexual pairing.
I'm bi.
And to the person who I just ended the friendship with: the thing you're bitching about? yeah if that kind of thing happened in cartoons when we were kids it would not have taken me until I was 23 to admit to myself that I am in fact bisexual don't you fucking DARE act like it's nothing but "stupid shipping bullshit". Especially since a massive number of people who ship said ship are not only bi or lesbian or pan or poly but also didn't ship it beyond a joke until season 3. And don't you fucking dare act like "hate" towards heterosexual cisgender individuals is anywhere near on par with LGBT people getting literally murdered and literally put on the street as teens by extremely bigoted family just because you're pissed a series ended with a canon bisexual pairing.
I really wish you would have confronted me, instead of going about things the way you did. You ignored my response on tumblr and my note, I really wanted to talk to you and yet because of something stupid I sad you ignore me with out trying to have a civil conversation with me. I can't say sorry enough and I hope you can at least not hate me for some stupid shit I had said and I am trying my best to tell you I am not against who you are.
Again, and so many times more I am terribly sorry.