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Is being single really that good?
11 years ago
I've started to realize I'm quite alone in this world. I may have my online friends and buddies back home, but I don't really have anyone I can call close to me. I look around FA quite a lot and I see many people who have mates, or partners, or what have you and I can't help but feel a bit upset for myself for not gaining such an important factor in my life. Not having someone close, be it just a good friend or more is something everyone should have; you don't need to have a million friends, just a few good ones.
I've seen the meme online about being single "Being Single bought me...." a new computer, a car, a set of games, cool material things, which is neat. But, if you think about it, no amount of materiel wealth or product will ever replace the comfort of having a living, breathing human next to you (dogs and cats don't count).
Perhaps because of recent hiccups with trying to meet girls have been dreary, many times they are either out of a rough relationships, or already in one, or just not interested. Its depressing; having just turned 27 and realizing I've never had a girl or guy-friend for the past 9 years (considered by 18 you should have at least had one GF/BF and potentially one sexual experience.)
Each day I wonder if I'll find the right person for me. Love is a fickle thing, sometimes it just happens, and many ppl I've spoken to have said to just let it roll. Hell, even my Horoscopes said I'd find love in the future; how long I'm not sure. Whatever the thought of it, having someone close would be a wonderful feeling, and I hope eventually that I can find someone right for me. I mean, what do I know about me, I can do a lot of stuff, I'm capable at cooking and cleaning, I love to listen to people and express my feelings to them. I've learned a lot from viewing friends, and resources online that have provided tips and tricks for being a good gentleman and the best way to treat a woman like a lady and a man like a gentleman, and how to make them the center of your life.
Sometime I hope to find the right person for, putting this here just helps me get it off my chest, and who knows, maybe someone here has shown some interest me, would be delighted to find them here too.
I've seen the meme online about being single "Being Single bought me...." a new computer, a car, a set of games, cool material things, which is neat. But, if you think about it, no amount of materiel wealth or product will ever replace the comfort of having a living, breathing human next to you (dogs and cats don't count).
Perhaps because of recent hiccups with trying to meet girls have been dreary, many times they are either out of a rough relationships, or already in one, or just not interested. Its depressing; having just turned 27 and realizing I've never had a girl or guy-friend for the past 9 years (considered by 18 you should have at least had one GF/BF and potentially one sexual experience.)
Each day I wonder if I'll find the right person for me. Love is a fickle thing, sometimes it just happens, and many ppl I've spoken to have said to just let it roll. Hell, even my Horoscopes said I'd find love in the future; how long I'm not sure. Whatever the thought of it, having someone close would be a wonderful feeling, and I hope eventually that I can find someone right for me. I mean, what do I know about me, I can do a lot of stuff, I'm capable at cooking and cleaning, I love to listen to people and express my feelings to them. I've learned a lot from viewing friends, and resources online that have provided tips and tricks for being a good gentleman and the best way to treat a woman like a lady and a man like a gentleman, and how to make them the center of your life.
Sometime I hope to find the right person for, putting this here just helps me get it off my chest, and who knows, maybe someone here has shown some interest me, would be delighted to find them here too.
I'm happy and content with how I'm living right now, I've got a good job in a new place, I've got good friends and I'm building my talent and experience base in what I want to do slowly and steadily. But the big thing that's missing is the feeling that I would like nothing more than to find and eventually be in a relationship. Its more so that I just see these people on FA and out of it being in relationships, me trying and not really getting anywhere and wondering if I will find the right person for me. Its been a constant thought on my mind since I left for my work abroad and have been wondering ever since if there is someone right for me out there.
Like I said, its not so much comparing as just making me figure I would like someone close in my life too.
Some people are better single, but maybe now, at 27 years old, you discover you are ready for a true realtionship.
And if that may be hard to find the good one, well, you should keep going, and try harder.
Go in class of cooking, of dancing. Go in dating website.
Think at what you could change for become more attractive. Maybe doing more sport? Or buy new cloth?
That may take you years, but , one day, you will find the good one...if you don't give up, and do effort..good luck ^^