Don't let them get to you man. If they don't like you being you, then they don't deserve to be your friend in the first place. You got some really good friends here, including me. Don't let what others do force you to quit FA. There is nothing weak about having true friends who support even through all this. Just keep doing what you're doing, man. Don't let them stop you! If you need someone to talk to, I'm more than happy to help you okay?

First of all thanks for your reply.

The thing is that all my friends are still sticked to the people who did hurt me, they don't wanna lose their friendship. They are not with me, don't agree with me, but they say they're neutral. There are many interests involved which make them go on their favor and not with me. Of course there is nothing weak about having true friends who support. But the problem is that i have NONE of these true friends. It's easy to say "I support you" but their actions (or lack of them) say otherwise.

Well, like I said, if there's anything you want to talk about with me, I'll always be available for you!

Thanks a lot

Of course

At the end of the day the person you need to be concerned with is you. You shouldn't let yourself be in such vulnerable state to be hurt like that. At the same time, you shouldn't deny yourself the things you enjoy in order to achieve that goal.

I can't quite say that much as I've just been a watcher, but I would suggest maybe working on your self-confidence a bit. We all need a bit of help with that sometimes and it sounds like that's what you're needing right now.

Thanks for your reply.

Here is the only place where i can really express myself and say what i really think about people. Here is where i can have my self-steem and self-respect very high, and not letting people to step on me, i don't care if this person is damn awesome with drawing skills and nicely sociable with thousands of followers and watchers who keep in touch with them, if he hurts me, i talk with them directly, if i see there is nothing to do about it i simply cut the relationship. But what happens? The rest of my friends who worship these people don't think i'm right and they still befriend them, but they say they're neutral just to keep both friendships: Mine and these people's. These people will NEVER apologize about what they did to me, that's for sure. So this is the point where i see myself not really supported by those who claim to be my friends. And have to give in. IRL this is basically me, have always to give in and sacrifice my beliefs in justice for their friendship so everybody is happy. Why i can't just have one for the first time? Why i can't have they sacrificing their beliefs, their pride, in order of keeping my frienship? That's the problem. And so here i am, enabling my account again like if nothing happened, smiling and being nice to everybody, if they're happy i'm happy. But my happiness have been always in second place IRL. Not here. But it seems that i will have to be the IRL me here too.

"But these people and my friends are on their side and move on like if nothing happened, how should i feel about it? What should i do?"

If they "did you wrong" they weren't friends to begin with. The best course of action is to follow suit and move on. It will take time, but the wounds will heal eventually.

Thanks for your reply.

I think i was not clear at that point, sorry. I mean that my friends are on the bad people's side.

If they aren't supporting you in your time of need (let alone actually opposing you), they aren't your friends either--just posers.

I have absolutely no idea what went down here, but if you need to talk, hit me up anytime.

Yes, I know. Some things are about to change.

you're not being coward, you've just had a phase where you had to settle it with yourself in peace, world is harsh and you cannot get along with absolutley everyone, some links just have to break from that strain... but I dare to day I'm extremely glad you came back... only even if partially, you still have many of us who support you, and look up to you too

I will never have peace until i see those people have some justice, teach them a lesson, take some of their own medicine. That or else have my friends doing something about this, like trying to make peace with them and me. But none of my friends want to get dirty, they just say "I support you" and that's all. Sorry but that's what i think.

The world can be a curel place, just because you didnt want to deal with it, that doesnt mean you are a coward. Just be yourself and no one else. If people dont like you for you then they arent worth your time.

Thanks for your reply.

A person who doesn't deal with the world outside is a coward, or at least that's what i think. But that's not the point, the thing is i got all of this for just being myself. Being myself only brought me unhappiness.

Wrong friends then? If your friends dont like you for yourself, then they arent your friends.

Comentare en español asi pocos lo leeran. Mira en 2014 me pasaron como 6 malos eventos con la gente aqui y tu sabes dos de ellos. Los furros en el fondo son gente comun y corriente. La gente comun y corriente cree que porque los demas estan a miles de km de ellos, se puede abusar de los que conocen en internet. "Con solo bloquearlos ya todo se acabo". Ese tipo de gente es mierda y lo peor que puedes hacer es macharte con la mierda, ¿que hacemos en la vida real con la mierda? La quitamos de nosotros cuando se nos embarra, nos limpiamos y seguimos nuestro camino. Esa gente simplemente te la debes quitar de encima, limiparte y no volverte a manchar con ella.

Ahota te contacte en twitter y me pare porque tampoco quiero ser molesto o encimoso. Lo que diste a entender es que tenias problemas de trabajo y por eso quitabas tu personaje un tiempo. Eso es comun en este mundillo pues pocos han podido meter su personaje en el mundo laboral. Como no sabes, si cerre mi cuenta en DA y un par de meses abri otra. Pensaba que nadie le intersaria y resulta que al menos unas 3 o 4 personas si les interesa saber que me paso. Asi que no se puede decir que a nadie le importa uno.

Con tus amigos simplemente pon las cosas claras, ¿Estas con x perosna? Pues adios y chau. Tu vales mucho como para pensar que si X persona se lleva a tus amigos ya no eres nada. Si ellos no te valoran, ni fueron tus amigos.

Y me alegra que regresaras de nuevo, ya extrañaba al dragon rojo ;) (que eres un lagarto pero hey pareces dragon XD )

Pues ya ves, la verdad ya ni se que hacer. Solo me queda actuar como si nada hubiera pasado y tratar de sonreir, como hago en la vida real. Siempre termino cediendo ante todos para que todos esten felices. Algo que aqui no hago, o hacia. Ya que al parecer ser como yo quiero ser aqui no tiene buenos resultados y termino solo. La vida es la misma ya sea aqui o alla afuera.

Jajaja, si hiciera una lista de la gente que dibuja bonito y es popular pero cuando la tratas es 100% lo contrario me corren de aqui. XD

Si crees que esto es malo, imaginate este escenario: Furry X estudiante de diseño nadie lo conoce y me hago amigo de el porque dibuja mechas con lobos adentro. Pasan los años y me quiebro financieramente para enviar regalos a Singapur cada año y el tio no envia nada. Un dia me deja colgado en ICQ y desde ahi solo me pela para pedirme favores. Se gradua el furry X y trabaja en animacion, BOOM! Se hace popufur y todos lo adoran, empieza a hacer porno y comics porno. Y que hace el tio conmigo? Me envia una caja con baratijas de anime, me dice que mi amistad no vale nada para el y que me busque un amigo tan LOOSER como yo porque le da verguenza que vean que soy su amigo ahora que los furris japoneses ya son sus amigos.

Me dolio, como no te imaginas. Solo me uso mientras se hacia popular y despues me tiro como un kleenex a la calle. Asi es la gente, y asi sera. No veo tu cara, eres desechable. Ahi anda el desgraciado en convenciones, pues como me "pago" mi amistad no le debo nada. De lo que el me envio TODO esta en la basura, pues era basura desde que lo compro con esa intencion.

No quiero decirte "pobre de mi me fue peor", digo "a todos nos pasa. Que los Dios lo perdone, porque yo solo lo podria perdonar pero nunca olvidar lo que el me hizo a mi". Y seguir adelante, irse es darles la victoria a los bastardos. Y gracias por el aviso, si te lo hacen a ti se lo hacen a todos tomo nota de los nombres.

Y no cambies, mejor que digan que eres un hijo de ?#@ a ser un penitente.

Anyone who claims to be your friend only to leave you behind for something more lucrative are not friends at all to begin with, I suggest focusing on those who care for you and will happily talk to you at the drop of a hat.

You've got real friends that can help you out, and I along with everyone else will be happy to help.

Thanks for your reply.

At this point i feel alone, nobody is with me really. My friends only say they support me, but they don't wanna do anything about it: "As long as this artist treats me good, i'm okay" But well, I can't do anything about it. They won (they always do) and my friends and everybody is happy.

Don't say that, there are people who do genuinely support you and would do anything to help you out, a lot of us was majorly concerned when you disabled your account without warning.

And I noticed you said to another user that being yourself brings unhappiness, that is not true at all, not being yourself is what brings you unhappiness, being yourself is what brings you genuine happiness.


And these people who are still being friends with this guy who hurt you, they're not your friends in the end, they're brown nosers, people who latch on to try and get something out of this guy, please don't let them ruin your experience here, if you need someone to talk to, you've got plenty of friends who'll happily talk to you.

Thanks again for your help. I will take some of the things you said.

You are most certainly welcome, if you want anything, hit me up on Skype and/or drop or note here

bienvenido de retache man! tu héchele ganas y no deje que las adversidades afecten tu mente. Llévatela chévere, disfruta y buena vibra man!

Muchas gracias. Es dificil pero se que lo superare algun dia.

Pues no creo que sea cosa de debilidad, Chance y sea porque estas consciente de que a pesar de lo que pasó con otros, hay algunos quienes todavía te consideran y si te podrían echar de menos en tu ausencia aquí.

Puede que no sea la persona ideal para decir esto, pero si me alegra que regresaras y no dejar que la influencia de unos afecte con todos los demás.

Tienes razon, no eres la persona indicada, aunque lo que digas es cierto. Tu me borraste de Skype, Facebook y de tu lista de amigos aqui, ya solo faltaba que me bloquearas. Me afecto muchisimo, llore, me deprimi y falte a trabajar ese dia. Mis alumnos y compañeros maestros notaron mi estado de animo esa semana y decidieron recibirme en uno de los ensayos con una porra, casi lloro de la felicidad. Ah! Lo olvidaba! Eso no es cierto, nunca paso eso. Porque soy un mentiroso doble cara que le gusta hacer sentir mal a las buenas personas para manipularlas y lograr mis intereses egoistas, verdad? Tu nunca confiaste en mi. Para que me moleste en tratar de enseñarte tantas cosas sobre la vida? Te ofreci techo y comida si alguna vez venias aqui a Chiapas, trate de buscarte trabajo cuando recien habias salido de tu carrera. Porque te tengo que decirte esto? Acaso lo olvidaste?

Leí cuidadosamente lo que has respondido y es verdad...
más o menos me doy cuenta de quienes fueron. Me ha pasado lo mismo.. o más bien aún me pasa.

Sé que no somos casi amigos >_< pero Esfuérzate y se valiente!
Imita lo bueno, no lo malo :)
No permitas que te pisoteen, si te es posible quédate en paz con los que puedas.

Dios te bendiga.

Gracias por tu apoyo.

Asi soy yo, asi siempre he sido. Siempre digo la verdad, fui bastante bien educado en ese sentido. Pero parece ser que a veces la gente no se la cree conocer a alguien asi. Y es cuando surgen los problemas. Pero pues ya que se le va a hacer.

Well welcome back again man, if I would express it all short and pretty though, there was never really no reason to leave really, but perhaps this was good time off still. It's just better to keep ignoring the problematic cases.

thanks for your reply

yeah i know, some things are about to change.

Welcome back muscle man! :)

thanks a lot :)