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Like, are you fucking kidding? [Vent]
10 years ago
My grandparents are the most rediculous people in the world some times. They are so power hungry it is dumb, and now that they have no one to control they're making my mother's life horrible to try and get it.
So, I lived with them for 2-3 years and they liked to act like the all knowing beings in the universe and of course that would get on my nerves but I would have to keep my mouth shut because I lived in their house. Recently
Arctic_Jet and I moved in together and they were not very supportive at all and saying I was making a dumb mistake and blah blah. Honestly, I couldn't care less because I was leaving their house.
The process of this happening means 1) They lost control over one daughter because she has the "perfect" family and they can't do anything wrong. 2) My 40 year old mother has had enough of their shit and has excluded herself from being apart or close enough to them for them to have any control anymore. 3) They lost the 20 year old boy living in their house so they have absolutely no one to control but themselves and maybe finally be old people and move on.
If only it were that easy, no, they have gone behind my mother's back and started saying "Oh -littlesister- you can come move in with us so you can go to blahblahblah school and so on and so forth. And you won't have to live with your mother and blah blah blah." Well, little do they know that my sister has a great relationship with my mother and she told her everything. This would not bother me, if it wasn't for my mother having to call me crying because I am the only one who knows the bullshit that my grandparents like to put us through.
I think it is absolutely dumb that you need to have control over someone so badly that you ahve to upset your daughter so much that she calls her 20 year old son crying about how you are making her already hard life hard. She is going through a seperation currently, which my grandparents haven't called her once to ask her if she is okay. She is just gaining a relationship with her son who she hasn't really spoken with in 3 years, she is constantly compared to her sister's perfect life and family, all while making it paycheck to paycheck at her waitress job to support herself and her daughter, which she is doing amazing I may add and I have so much respect for her in doing so.
Like, my grandparents are starting to get on my last nerve with everything and trying to show people the "Expert level of difficult" that life can give someone. Fucking grow up and maybe you won;t lose your family like you are already doing so.
I will always love them don't get me wrong because they are family, but at this point I'd rather move to Japan and stay in contact through e-mail then to ever have to see them again.
Sorry for the rant <3
So, I lived with them for 2-3 years and they liked to act like the all knowing beings in the universe and of course that would get on my nerves but I would have to keep my mouth shut because I lived in their house. Recently
Arctic_Jet and I moved in together and they were not very supportive at all and saying I was making a dumb mistake and blah blah. Honestly, I couldn't care less because I was leaving their house.The process of this happening means 1) They lost control over one daughter because she has the "perfect" family and they can't do anything wrong. 2) My 40 year old mother has had enough of their shit and has excluded herself from being apart or close enough to them for them to have any control anymore. 3) They lost the 20 year old boy living in their house so they have absolutely no one to control but themselves and maybe finally be old people and move on.
If only it were that easy, no, they have gone behind my mother's back and started saying "Oh -littlesister- you can come move in with us so you can go to blahblahblah school and so on and so forth. And you won't have to live with your mother and blah blah blah." Well, little do they know that my sister has a great relationship with my mother and she told her everything. This would not bother me, if it wasn't for my mother having to call me crying because I am the only one who knows the bullshit that my grandparents like to put us through.
I think it is absolutely dumb that you need to have control over someone so badly that you ahve to upset your daughter so much that she calls her 20 year old son crying about how you are making her already hard life hard. She is going through a seperation currently, which my grandparents haven't called her once to ask her if she is okay. She is just gaining a relationship with her son who she hasn't really spoken with in 3 years, she is constantly compared to her sister's perfect life and family, all while making it paycheck to paycheck at her waitress job to support herself and her daughter, which she is doing amazing I may add and I have so much respect for her in doing so.
Like, my grandparents are starting to get on my last nerve with everything and trying to show people the "Expert level of difficult" that life can give someone. Fucking grow up and maybe you won;t lose your family like you are already doing so.
I will always love them don't get me wrong because they are family, but at this point I'd rather move to Japan and stay in contact through e-mail then to ever have to see them again.
Sorry for the rant <3
