Before I start, I'm in love with the furry fandom, please do not get me wrong. Although, there are a lot of people in it that drive me nuts. Yes, I understand that many of these people can be found outside of the fandom, but recently I have been finding them much more predominantly inside of the fandom.

What is with furs and having such huge problems with their exs? Personally, I always try to stay and touch and at least be friendly with them, sometimes more than others, but a lot of the time within the fandom all I see is an all out war between those two people and each of their friendm's lists which is absolutely rediculous. I find myself within these situations myself, but I'm also someone who gives way too many chances to people who hurt me way too often.

As well as just straight up fake furs. One second your their absolute best friend and they can't get enough of you and the next you don't hear from them for days, weeks, or even ever again at that point. I really don't understand? Personally if I do something wrong, please let me fucking know so I don't do it again to you, let alone anyone else.

Or even pretending to be my friend to use me or get ahead or hiding so many things behind my back and telling me nothing that there's no point anymore. If you hide so many things from me, while pretending to be my best friend, of course I'm going to explode once I find all these things out, I'm not just going to sit there and pretend that everything that you've been hiding from me is alright.

All in all, like I said in the beginning, I know this isn't just furries that do these things, but I am forced to interact with those situations so much more often within the fandom than outside of the fandom, and honestly it starts to fucking hurt after a while.