I'm sorry to hear that, Sonia. :(
I hope you can restore some lost friendships if it's possible. If not, there's always a new beginning.
There are people who are willing to be your friends, I'm sure of it.

You might be looking at one right now, too. :3

So don't give up hopes just yet. I'm sure that people will walk into your life soon enough ^^
Preferably those you can trust, of course~

Thank you ^^
It's hard to cope when you're with someone for 5 years

I believe it is. And you have my full support, Sonia.

I'm so sorry!!

It really will suck a bit...but I think you already have outlets for your feelings and probably will be able to repair things with your friends. It takes time, but it can happen.

I totally feel your pain as I was with someone for 5 years who made me completely abandon my friends--and then she kicked me to the curb completely (in a very mean fashion). She stuck around as a "friend" who was judgmental and kept me from friends for a few years after...but, things are slowly coming around again now in that department.

The next time...if a guy wants you to cut the whole world off. It sounds romantic and wonderful--I mean, I get it! I love giving myself to someone and connecting with them entirely and wanting to be with them so badly I'd shack up in a tiny cottage in the woods and ignore everything else. But...it's just not a healthy thing. So, the next guy that gets with you--you should also just be open and honest about the other friends and family and stuff in your life. If the relationship is good enough, they will totally be able to work with you on building your life instead of trying to take you away from it.

my ex didnt like my friends and made me get rid of them
of course were dumb and in love so we do it. i was with him for a really really long time, he also held onto the money, if i got paid or gst he would get me to put it in his account, i lost all my independence and that was what was really scary
i wont lie and bullshit, it is HARD. very hard, it took me a year + to get over this person, doesnt help he kept trying to fool around with me, thinking we would be back together but he just wanted some, as well with the girl he cheated on me with
in time it gets better, you meet new people and make new friends and eventually, find someone who deserves you. it took me 3 years but i finally found someone to be with again after i thought i could never love anyone else, i know it will happen for you, just keep your chin up the best you can <3