Lately, I have stumbled upon the pages of few furs who have the no-yiff banner plastered in several locations on their user page. To say that I don't understand this is a painful understatement; the truth is, seeing these banners offends me the same way a starving person might look at someone who says they are on a diet.

I want to know why. Are your hormones inactive?

The way it comes across to me is that the furs in question do know the draw of sex but push it away. I am told that this can happen to trauma victims or with people who have associated sex with betrayal. If this is the way you feel then congratulations on the irony, because I feel like a victim of sexual starvation and that people who do have sex with me are the only ones that I can trust to not betray me.